oka well the guy i like and I were talking yesterday on the computer and then i had to get off and it was aroiund 11 at night and i said well i got to go but call or txt me if u still wana talk and then i gave him my number but he didnt call or anything. I kind of knew that he wouldnt but now im scared that i just made things awkward between us and i hope i didnt im just scared, but now i dont know what to do because i tried to make a move and now i dont know what to do from here. I sent him another message asking about how his game went on friday but I dont know what else to do about me and him... well if anyone can help i would be so happy! please help and give any advice and i will pick best answer!
2007-12-24 01:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by sam s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're experiencing rejection anxiety.
Just let it go. It was late at night and he probably fell asleep - could still be asleep if he's anything like the young folks in my neighborhood.
It doesn't sound like you did anything that would "put him off" about you, and it's a busy time of year, so just let it go and focus on other things. He'll call you when he can, and then you shouldn't bring up the fact that he didn't call, etc. Just go on as you normally would. That way, if he did for some reason feel pressured, he'll blow it off and nothing will be affected.
I find my own grandchild over-analyzes things until she makes herself miserable, and that seems to be what's happening here. Just try to relax and give it some time.
2007-12-24 01:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by L.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax.he probably has a life .he's busy plus a lot of guys feel better with chatting on the computer.they have an extra moment to think about what they want to say.most guys hate talking on the phone.nothing went negative here except our thinking.be patient and take baby steps.if there is interest he will be chatting again
2007-12-24 01:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to this true account.
A 13 yr old girl had a chat with a guy online. She never told him her last name, only her first name, never told him in what city she lived.
She did tell him her school colors and mascot, that she was in track and she loved the beach near her home. She told him her age, her height, and hair color.
A few weeks passed.
One day she left the track practice at school. A man approached her. Hi " ", I'm " ".
He was a detective and found her in Georgia.
A long chat with her parents.
2007-12-24 01:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy myself, I just say wait it out. He will eventually think about it and maybe he will call you. I am not god, so i cant guarantee it happening. just wait till u guys go back to school. Then u can talk to him. The awkwardness will dissipate soon enough.
2007-12-24 01:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by maxx41996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so worked up, he might have thought you were going to bed and he did not want to disturb you. Just talk to him like you normally would. As to the text he might have not read it yet or had time to respond. If you like him ask him to go on a group date with you.
2007-12-24 01:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with a female making the first move at communication. and it shouldnt make things weird. maybe you reading too in to it. just be normal the next time you talk.
2007-12-24 01:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In ur 1st chat u gave ur phone no.so he must b thinking that u r a cheap girl who can drop her HAT at any instant.
2007-12-24 01:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by prahlad d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is now in his court. If you don't hear from him, just let him go. Don't keep trying to contact him or he may think you have stalker tendencies.
2007-12-24 01:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Beach Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk for a bit and when you know he feels more comfotable talking again then you can start talking a bit more.
2007-12-24 01:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Merly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. play it cool. So he didn't call so what? maybe he feel asleep or something.
2007-12-24 01:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋