2007-12-24 01:41:31 · 22 answers · asked by Gilbert C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a person cheats on you once they will do it again. There is no solutions, sorry means i got caught.
2007-12-24 02:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by imsety 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women in long-term, committed relationships only cheat when something is wrong in the relationship.Women rarely cheat because they are horn dogs. You two should sit down together and decide if this relationship is worth saving. If it is then you need to try and figure out why she felt the need to seek something outside of your relationship. You may need to find a relationship counselor because many couples have trouble communicating fairly and a counsleor can be a mediator to keep you on track. I believe most relationship problems stem from communications issues, so you may just need an open and honest tslk with consideration on both sides.
2007-12-24 09:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Blake's mommy!!!♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a difficult situation. You trusted her, and she broke that trust by cheating on you. Trust is something that most people don't take lightly. Thats why relationships and friendships are strained when that trust is broken. You both can work through it if you want your relationship to continue. On her side she'll need to understand that the trust is broken, and that you'll be asking more questions about where she is going, and with who, how long will you be gone, and so on. You on the other hand will have the slow process of trusting her again. Try not to be to constraining on her that she can't breath. With time you can work through this, but its something you both have to realise will always be there.
2007-12-24 09:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Brian F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you say girlfriend instead of wife, kick her cheating a** to the curb and play the field. When you start dating again, make it clear from jumpstreet that you intend to see other people and that you aren't interested in having a single relationship at this time.
2007-12-24 09:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by ra4bat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can only find the answer to this question in your heart. I can say from expericene that once you have been cheated on it is very hard to trust that person again. I know that if you do not have trust in a relationship that the relationship will not work. Trust is something that is very hard to get back once you have lost it. This is a question that you really need to answer yourself.
2007-12-24 09:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by luckyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are so much better than she, let her go.
If you feel that people make mistakes and you would like her to be yours....then give her another chance.
If she fails you again, well....then there is no doubt what you have to do but, if you act too quickly, you could be throwing away the best thing you ever had.
Good luck.
2007-12-24 09:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by we_are_legion99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your sprung you cant solve it u just allow her to keep usuing you and abusing you
but you got 1 thing right she is a sorry girlfriend.... when your in a relationship you agree to a commitment and you cant trust people who cant keep their commitments and you cant have a healthy relationship if there is no trust!!!
so its time to move on...dont you think?
2007-12-24 09:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by King J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You solve it by "dissolving" the relationship. Once a cheater-always a cheater.
2007-12-24 09:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart rhytham is really for love then love expact your sacrifice if somebody cheat you or not there is no matter
2007-12-24 09:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by rashid274 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN IN DETAIL CHEATING!! WHAT DO YO CONSIDER CHEATING? HAS SHE SLEPT WITH SOMEONE ELSE? DID SHE JUST KISS, GO OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE?
IN MY OPINION IF SHE HAS SLEPT WITH SOMEONE ELSE I MAY EXCEPT THE APOLOGY BUT WOULD STILL DUMP HER LIKE A BAD HABIT.
2007-12-24 09:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by MR. I Know! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋