Why do people cheat anyway?

Question

Not that no one knows that it is going to bring pain to all involved.

Why do people want to cheat their loved ones? because they are not satisfied??

Lets hear it from you all.

Gee... if they are not getting what they need from their current partner, why can't they talk about it 6 try to solve the problem together? Being in a relationship means that 2 people have to work at it for good times & bad times.

Answer 1

There is no simple answer to this. There are many reasons and A lot of them are self justification. The most common reason is that people are prone to craving attention and this goes hand in hand with excitement. When you have the excitement then you get the hormone release in brain and that makes you more prone to do it. Then the release is associated with the person that you are cheating with and the cycle continues. There are reasons that are listed like "my mate ignores me" "we have sexual issues" etc. the key to this whole thing is to communicate with your SO.

Answer 2

Cheaters to me "in any area of life" to me is a very weak human being/person. With cheating comes other co existing disorders useually like, Selfish, lying, decieving con artist with a charm to em that makes u want to bad to believe its a lie he cheated....lol. Cheaters are insecure, jealous, Ignorant,narcisstic person (basically all about them and wants center of attention controlling and abuse emotional and sometimes physical.) ) that has mostly immature non domesticated actions....at any age.
Leopards useually dont change there spots when it comes to a cheater.
Do you think they care if anyone else hurts when they cheated ? course not and why would they now then or they never would of and gave only a pathetic weak excuse that cant be man or women enough to admit there faults therefore a pathetic, weak selfish heartless liar who like there cake and wants to eat it too.
I think they cheat more for control and cause they Can.
advice i say is go with gut instint with someone initially and dont ignore the red flags.
Do you know what u want in a lover and do you know what u feel u deserve with another.
I would start from there cuz there are alot of jerks out there and the Real Men take a little more time finding...smiles.

Answer 3

Some people aren't satisfied. Some people cannot control themselves. Some people are courious. Some people are tricked and trapped. Some people JUST WANT to. Some people really have problems within the relationship, like abuse. Some people to as payback or to get even.

I've never cheated and would never do that to anyone because I know how it feels to be cheated on. My ex cheated on me because I wasn't where he wanted me to be sexually. He was crazy and so was I because I stayed with him, first because I didn't believe that he was cheating. Even when I knew he was...I still stayed. I was in love but he wasnt. He wanted children and I wasnt ready. But THEY do it because THEY think THEY can.

Answer 4

They get bored and want something different and some people like the excitement they feel from doing something sneaky and bad.. Or it could be because they are not getting what they need from there current partner.

Answer 5

Some cheat because they get bored with the same thing. It is not that they love you any less, just bored. But most who cheat have that gene in them and they would cheat no matter what.

Answer 6

because they are dum and selfish. Instead of being honest witht the person they are with they string them along givivng them hope of having a long relationship but then when they get *** from some where else its like u never ment anything to them

Answer 7

Because people can, and they cheat because they are unsure of the original relationship in the first place.

Noone is sure of anything anymore.

Answer 8

Some people are just plain selfish. People cheat and it only speaks about themself, not anyone else involved.

Answer 9

They cheat cause they don't really love their partner..
they get fed up..

Answer 10

because they get tried of their loves ones