OMG, I hate my stupid brother so MUCH!!! He pisses me off! What do I do?

Question

Okay, my brother has anger issues!
This is long, if you don’t like reading that much then don’t read it & blame me for wasting your time please. Sorry if I sound rude, I’m just rlly mad.
He has anger management just like my dad so whenever we play a game like arm wrestling & I win he takes his hand & slaps me across the face & kicks & punches me! WTF is his problem? One time, he got soooo mad at me he grabbed a pair of scissors and started walking toward me holding the pair of scissors like that crazy Chucky doll & my mom was right there with her eyeballs glued to the computer screen & when I couldn't back away any longer, I got shocked until I moved the other way & then I started screaming, crying, & yelling at the top of my lungs because my mom didn't go anything then she told me to go to MY room & that everything was my fault & because I was screaming, yelling, & crying....she thought  I  had anger management. Isn’t anger management when you can't control your anger? I can control mine deffinently but Alex & stupid dad can't! Since I’m the older one, I’m the one who gets in trouble & yelled at most of the time, gosh. He even throws things & knocks things down. I’ve been fed up so many times, I’ve always gotten the feeling about reporting this to the counselor but whenever I’m about to [when mom & Alex finds out] Alex starts burst out crying, screaming & throwing a tantrum & mom says all these really mean harsh things to me saying that she doesn’t want to live with me anymore, she just wants to runaway from me, why am I chosen to be her child, I never cause any happiness, that I’m never nice, & says all this crap even though I always help her & tries to cheer her up when she’s down most of the time. And whenever we get in a fight, & only a few of the times, he gets in trouble & then when my dad is lecturing him, my mom’s giving me this evil glare at me saying that I’m the child of the devil. Wth? Something seriously is wrong in my family & I’m sick of it! Why is my mom doing this to me? And one time, my dad abused me leaving me with marks, head damage with blood dripping from my head, muscle/bone aches, & all these harsh remarks & he’s been doing that to me until I told in him & I’ve been having flashbacks ever since I was 3 yrs old when that crazy bastard humped me with clothes on & I was really depressed at that time & I’ve been holding a grudge at him for so long & I still do b/c he got away with it & made me look bad instead saying that I lied because my mom told me to [there’s more to it but that’s not what the main problem is right now]! I have no idea what to do! I can’t ******* live like this nomore! So anyone, help? I would love to run away & start a fresh new life in 2 years when I turn 16 yrs old!

Answer 1

You can't run away at 16- you cannot make enough money to support yourself at that age, so that's out of the question!
What you can do is ask your mom to set aside a few minutes out of her day, and you 2 sit down and have a heart to heart talk. Tell her your sincere feelings without raising your voice or bashing anyone, and see what happens! New years is a great time for a family resolution. If this doesn't help at all, don't be afraid to talk at depth with your school counselor! They really can help, that's what they are there for
Good luck and merry xmas

Answer 2

Well stay away from your brother and dad as much as possible.Its not my choice to runaway but if you want to just do it and find a hotel for a while.I would just not talk to them for a long time and try not to scream and shout and stuff maybe she wont think you have anger management.And talk about all those things to let her know whats happend with your brother.And if she ignores you then give it sometime.

Answer 3

All relationships need defenition at times, and you certainly need to establish some rules with your brother. Your family seem to tolerate abuse, and your brother might be abusing you to get back at his abuse from your father. I would suggest you turn him into alliance against your father, or do something that demonstrates your aren't powerless (and make him think the next time he hurts you). The next time he attacks you with a scissors, think about calling the police. It won't be too long until he need desperately needs help with girls, and he might need your advice on dating? Try and find some leverage you can use to establish your rights.

Answer 4

you need 2 talk 2 someone.
you shouldnt have 2 live in this sitaution, and ur not getrting the care that u need.
talk 2 either ur brothers counselor, or go straight 2 the police.
if ur brother threatens u again, call 911 right away.
ur obviously not living in a safe enviroment, and u deserve better.

stay safe, and good luck.
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