2007-12-23 17:49:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What Should I Do To Keep Cool
2007-12-23 18:17:22 · update #1
Hi sweetie!
Oh man, that's definitely tough.
My parents are going through a seperation right now. It's really hard, because all they do is fight and argue. I even have a little brother they do it infront of and it's really hard for him to deal with it.
It kinda feels like your whole world is crashing down eh?
Well don't worry even though your parents will be living far away from eachother - just remember it's important to keep a good relationship with both of them.
If you've seen a councellor - you've obviously heard all the blah blah blah's from their eyes - but take it from ME someone who is going through this right now and watching my brother go through it too.... It will get better!
Even though it doesn't seem like it will, it's going to. You'll move to your new city (I answered your other question last night), you'll make new friends, be closer to family, and you'll probably meet the girl of your dreams!
If you have any siblings, it's important to keep a GOOD relationship with them too. They will be the ones that will be there for you when your parents aren't.
Good luck sweetheart, and just remember that your family loves you. And I'm sure so does everyone around you. You seem like a great kid. Have a very Merry Christmas hunnie.
xoxo
2007-12-24 04:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Big Red♥ is TTC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
((((hugs)))) i'm sooooo sorry. I'm divorced too, got divorced cos he was a silly wife-beater. just couldn't live with him and had to walk out with my 2 year old kid.
now, i've moved on to a new city and trying to teach my son how to cope. its not easy at all.
but life's like that honey. u have to move on. but ALWAYS remember lots of people love u and u are special in ur own way. just cos ur parents aren't together doesn't mean the end of the world for u.
just think that one parent has gone away on a loooooong holiday.....u can still meet ur parents when u want.
all the best.
Merry X'mas And a wonderful New Year ahead.
2007-12-24 07:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by srk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my parents have been divorced since I was like 2 or 3. No big deal. Move on and get over it. No offense to you but people whose parents are getting divorced need to get over it because it's not like some one died. I mean you still get both your parents they just aren't "legally" together.
2007-12-24 04:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray for them real hard and offer your help to both of them. I think it's time to do your part for the sake of your family. Don't be just only a passive child. Help them
2007-12-24 13:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by rv2rx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.... rough time when parents split up... i hope you get through it ok... it's not easy, my parents were divorced when i was young, too.
i'm assuming you are a teenaged person. there is a link below which might help. you can also look up TEENS COPING WITH DIVORCE for more website info
take care of yourself.
2007-12-24 02:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just try this should not happen by making them feel that you people will be happier together but if you can't do anything so stop the split then just think that it is the will of the gods and its happening for someone's good.
2007-12-24 04:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by nilesh_1991 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
:-( I'm so sorry. :-(
Just remember, it's not your fault, and they still love you just as much. It will get better as time passes. :-(
2007-12-24 03:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Amelia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it Flow.
2007-12-24 02:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Red Dwarf 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋