okay sooo my boyfriend and i were making out in my room just before he had to leave and everyone in my house knocks except my 19 y/o brother which herein lies the problem... he walked in on us making out and then took my laptop.
(i'm 17 btw if that even matters which it doesnt so i dont want any comments on the making out thing. i'm not sexaully active so hush!)
that was awkward phase number one!
so here the second part.
my boyfriend left my house and when he got home he txted me and told me his mom had bought him a box of condoms. i didnt believe him so he had to put his mom on speaker phone.
what would you have done in this situation besides turn completely red. how would you deal with all this awkwardness?!?! i need help here!!!!
oh yeah merry christmas and happy holidays!!!
2007-12-23 17:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX AND WE DON'T PLAN TO!!!!!
2007-12-23 17:24:26 · update #1
and i have a lock. people knock thats why i dont lock it. its useless to.
2007-12-23 17:25:25 · update #2
MY laptop.
he came into my room to get my laptop when he has his own computer?!
2007-12-23 17:26:13 · update #3
lol thanks sweet_cookie!
hahaha it was just awkward b/c his mom had to come onto speaker phone then she was really embarrassed about it.
2007-12-23 17:28:54 · update #4
Gosh, what a way to start the holiday. Sorry for the embarrassment! I would definitely be embarrassed if I were in your situation!
The first awkward phase. I would just relax about it. Your brother was 17 once. I'm pretty sure he knows. It may be a little uncomfortable since no one likes to see their sibling making out with someone, but he'll get over it. Like I said, he was 17 once.
The second awkward phase. Just be glad his mother is thinking of both of you. She obviously doesn't want you two to end up having children so young. She knows whats going on.
Even if it isn't you and your boyfriend. Teens are having sex more than ever these days. She just wants you two to be safe. It's better to be prepared when the time is right.
I hope this helps. Take care and happy holidays.
Violet
2007-12-23 17:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Violet 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LOL.... HIS MUM HAS SENSE
And cares about you... look its better to have something and not need it, then need it and not have it.
So take the condoms as at some point if you really like each other your homrones will make you want to go further... maybe next week, maybe next year but its going to happen... ans best to get on long term contrception as well as the rule is sperm gets close enough to vagian and stiff willies leak sperm ...often this way you may get sperm on target before get the condom and have sex.
So dont worry said mum cares for you and is a great sign as she is saying you can come and ask me stuff.
Most dont plan to have sex when it happens... it does not make you a bad person... means your human and have feelings
2007-12-24 06:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the first, get it through your brothers head that he has to knock!! or by a lock for your room.
for the second, i dont know what you were so awkward about. was it the fact that your boyfriend wants to have sex with you? if it is, then tell him that you are not ready. if it was that fact that his mom had to come on speaker phone, then oh well. whats done is done. get over it....... i would have just said something like "wow, you werent kidding!" p.s. the people didnt exactly see you turn red, so there's nothing to worry about!
hope this helped!! :)~
2007-12-24 01:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by ۞sweet_cookie۞ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore that and tell everyone that you appreciate the concern and the protection but you wont be needing it because you are not sexually actuve nor will you be anytime soon!
2007-12-24 01:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Avaria 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well your face lit up red like a christmas tree i bet lol (sorry a festive corny joke) anyway....that would be very embarassing...and if i think of something i'll tell you later..until then know that im trying to put myself in your position and point of view so i can give you a well thought out and educated answer
2007-12-24 01:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
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would start singn' have yourself a merry little cristmas. then took my laptop back and told my brother that he had imagined everything. then told my boyfriend and his mom to get a life FREAKS
2007-12-24 04:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anna L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a joke out of it.
or acted like nothing ever happened.
act innocent.
2007-12-24 01:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by sofffiecanxdisco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his mom is siquic no dout. lol just kidding. ha i even sopelt dat wrong. lol
2007-12-24 01:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by Melll; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lock 4 your door and tell ur bf he's movin to fast 4 u
2007-12-24 01:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by capone 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
well i would of believe in him because he is your boyfriend.
2007-12-24 13:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋