Why do they flirt with you a lot, then the next day they tell you, they dont like you more then a friend?
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Any anwsers?
2007-12-23 17:12:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I suspect that you are experiencing very stupid, self centered little boys who are practicing flirting without realizing the pain it can cause! They do this to get a postive reaction from gals (or guys) to make themselves feel better about themselves...no other reason but selfish foolishness. AND, to you gals out there, if you are taking this stuff seriously, you are coming across as easy to get, and guys like to work for the conquest..so I suggest that the next time a guy starts flirting with you, brush it off! IF he is serious and IF he is interested for real, he will not stop with one brush off, trust me on that one. IN fact, he will begin to respect you and think you are worth something. IF you react as easy, he will regard you as cheap, regardless of what you think or who tells you what. Merry Christmas, Goldwing
2007-12-23 17:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually most boys are either really only talking with you because they feel you are nothing more than a friend (nowadays) or they really are flirting with you. If that is the case and they only like you as a friend the next day is either because that boy is shy or he has saw someone else he likes (mostly the second option)
2007-12-23 17:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by nuetronhead 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because during that time that they're flirting with you..they're horny and have the idea that they're gonna score with ya but it turns out that he wont.So by the next day when his hormones are all calm....he'll realize that you're not as easy as he thought so he'd like to just remain friends with you. Dont worry...it wont be the last time he does this!! lol!!
2007-12-23 17:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rocquii<3 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You probably leave no mystery about you for a guy wanting to know you more. I've been on dates where all I listed to was to a life time story all within the first date leaving nothing out at all to get to know them. On your next date don't tell your whole life story leave them wanting to know more about you. A very good example of this is to watch "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" she left the guy wanting to know more about her equals more dates. If she blurted her life story in one date thats all it would have been. Knowing your American it will be hard for you not to talk about yourself or knowing when to cut off. To leave a guy wanting to learn more about you. If you are quizzed by a guy just say "I'll tell you another time" The guy will instantly think you want more out of this than just only a date. You watch the change from wanting only being your friend to wanting to get to know everything about you.
2007-12-23 18:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely short term instant gratification. Both genders do this - they will flirt to evoke a response from them. This reinforces the flirter's self-worth of sexual attractiveness in the short run but they are not looking for a relationship.
2007-12-23 17:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Moo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The reason is different everytime or with every guy.
Because, for some reason, they got "buyers remorse." Meaning that the new wore off and quickly. Sometimes in our lives we make bad decisions or decisions we regret. Or else all of his friends told him stories about you. Either way, he'll never admit his actions are wrong (except to himself).
2007-12-23 17:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tis the nature of the untamed beast, you call man.
When you get a more experienced one, this wont happen as often, yet some still slip into the bad habit.
2007-12-23 18:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i like to flirt just cause its fun, and if the guys a lil cute,you know, so maybe its the same thing for....its all just fun......and what really pisses me off is that hey girls are a lil too naive, come on, think things through a lil, jeese, guys aren't pretty lil angels that love ya, in fact they're just horny bastards.....ey you gotta admit you're horny, you caint deny that.
2007-12-23 17:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Come again 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because flirting is fun, we dont want to date, marry, have sex, or do other stuff with everyone we flirt with, its a great way to know that if i wanted you i could probably have you, its a game both girls and boys play, flirting is a way to feel hott and wanted
2007-12-23 17:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think boys are just very confused. They may think they like you, but then when they get close, they decide it's too much and back off. It's a pain, I know (happened to me as well), but it will pass over time. : )
2007-12-23 17:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by LestatD 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋