to pretend that it doesn't bother me & hold my feelings inside.
or is it better to let them out & agrue back to let ppl know how I feel?
2007-12-23 17:00:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No just hold it in..if you act like it bothers you, they'll just continue doing it.
2007-12-23 17:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what they're saying. if its some thing completely unbelievable && some thing every one knows u wouldnt do then ignore it. but if its something thats making u look real bad with ur friends then clear it up. but just dnt go down 2 that persons level && agrue with them cuz ppl love to talk && hate especialy if they know that it bothers u.
2007-12-23 17:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by VONNiE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always smile, and ask them if they feel better now?
hon, when people down talk others, it's because THEY do not value themselves, and have low self-esteem. so saying bad things about others makes them feel "better" only temporarily.
people who feel good about themselves, also realize they have faults, and so does the rest of the world. these people just live and let live, and accept others as they are.
take care and happy holidays
2007-12-23 18:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk right back to them! Don't act like it doesn't bother you!
2007-12-23 17:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie GIrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it's not true,then don't worry about it!!
2007-12-23 17:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by PEACHES 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋