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ok , i'm 21yrs old and i live at home with my mom,dad, sis and her b/f and her son.I've been going to school fulltime and working partime ,but i decided i want to make a change ,so i just got a great job w/excellent benifts one thing i have never had ,nor have my parents provided for me. I plan on workign fulltime and going to school part time. I told mom and she's upset she was crying when she saw me this morning ,she's make a big deal (i am the Baby) my sis is 26 not marrried ,got pregnant at 17 and doesnt go to school. The reason i want to move is because the commute wll be easier and school closer,but she doesnt undersand.... I plan to move in w/my b/f and his sister. what should i do?? It's not like i'm telling her hey i'm 15 and pregnant w/a low life b/f like my sister did.
i've been working since i was 16 and been paying
2007-12-23 15:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
paying for all my bills.
2007-12-23 15:15:30 · update #1
i already spoke to her ,but she just doesnt understand.
2007-12-23 15:25:57 · update #2
thanks ,for all your advice it's just that my dad has never been a family man ,so he's never around and she tells me that living w/my b/f is going to fail because of her experience w/my dad.
2007-12-23 15:49:34 · update #3
my mom cried her eyes out when i moved im 22 i work full time an go to college full time , i moved out with my boyfriend an no i do not have a child yet, my mom got used to it i just keep in contact with her an i let her help me out with my apartment , i even go shopping with her once in a while it keeps her happy , we just grow up to fast
2007-12-23 15:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by LovelyBrownEyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If moving out is the best thing for you to do the you should do it. It's hard for moms when kids move out but they learn to deal with it. You have the right to live your life. You can't let someone guilt trip you into doing somethin you don't want to do. After all, you're not moving half-way around the world you are moving closer to school. Your mom will be okay, she will get used to the situation. I know, I have a 21 year old daughter too. It was hard when she moved away to go to school but I was okay. Your mom will be, too. Good luck!
2007-12-23 15:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by shadowdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 03:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a typical mother reaction. I am 28 and when my mom found out I was moving out of state she cried forever. She still doesn't like it but she can't hold me back, the same with your mother. She'll get over it. She has to.
2007-12-23 15:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is crying because her baby is growing up and leaving her. Just try to involve her in your decorating of your new house. That way she will still feel needed. Good for you having your head on your shoulders. Congrats on the job and new place.
2007-12-23 15:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by TLS (Caitlin is coming! 5/15/08) 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think u should if your are really ready to take the responsiblity of been on ur own, i moved out at 19 and am doing good my mom actually wanted me to go.
2007-12-23 15:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ingrid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you. You're 22, if you want to move out and you can afford it, just let her know this is how it is.
2007-12-23 15:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should have moved out four years ago it wouldnt' have been easeir..
2007-12-23 15:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋