ok i let a guy have sex with me without protection. First you don't have to tell me this was stupid..i know. I don't plan on doing it again. This just happened this weekend so there is no way to for absolute certain right now, but there's not really any chance i'm pregnant, right? And if there is, it must be a very small chance?
2007-12-23 14:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
"about 50/50 .......Not good odds."
um....what is your source for this?
2007-12-23 14:12:10 · update #1
"It really depends on how good he was at pulling out and if there was any precum."
i thought precum didn't have sperm in it?
i was more concerned because we had sex more than once and i thought there might maybe there was still sperm on his penis when he put it in the second and third times.
2007-12-23 14:17:18 · update #2
"Do you know when you ovulate? If you ovulated this weekend, I'd go get Plan B if I were you."
I don't know for sure, but I had my period like two weeks ago. So I guess that's not good?
2007-12-23 14:32:42 · update #3
You typically ovulate about 2 weeks before the start of your next period, so your chances of being pregnant are decent. You may also have gotten lucky. But pulling out is not always an effective way to prevent pregnancy, you should be more careful.
You would have to wait until you get your period (or not) to really know something and take a test one week after it was supposed to start.
2007-12-23 14:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Valerie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Precum contains some sperm. I would just hope for the best. The pull and pray method is never an effective form of birth control. My hubby and I used that when I went off the pill, and I was pregnant in 3 months. I do think there may be a very small chance that you could've gotten pregnant. Do you know when you ovulate? If you ovulated this weekend, I'd go get Plan B if I were you. Actually...I'd go get it anyway. You should still have time if it is within 72 hours. Contact Planned Parenthood.
2007-12-23 14:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by emmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is a noticeable risk that you will get pregnant. Males release seminal fluid during intercourse that clears out the urethra in preparation for climax, and that can contain live sperm, which can lead to pregnancy without ejaculation, or if he pulled out before climax.
The odds are certainly lower than if he climaxed during intercourse, but you are still at risk. Pay attention to your menstrual cycle, and if you are late you had better get a pregnancy test.
Note that no form of contraception is perfect, so you have some risk if you have intercourse, for example condoms alone have a failure rate around 10%. Multiple layers of defense are better - condoms with a spermicide, or with the pill, etc.
If you are having sex, then you are an adult in some sense, and you are taking adult risks, and will have to deal with the consequences. The next few days or weeks are likely to be tense, waiting to find out if your period shows up on time (been there, done that, not fun). Welcome to the adult world, sounds like you weren't quite ready, but at least you can learn from the experience. Good luck.
Sex is often used as a method to get emotionally close, for pleasure, and for other social purposes, but ultimately sex is mostly about reproduction.
2007-12-23 14:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by VirtualSound 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how good he was at pulling out and if there was any precum. I have been lucky never to get pregnant with the pull-out method (I'm married though so it does not matter to much if I did), but lots of people have. So wait for your period and be careful.
2007-12-23 14:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL if you think for one second that you have nothing to worry about because he pulled out YOUR WRONG! Might as well start stocking up on the pregnancy tests!
It's a lot bigger than just a small chance! Ever heard of pre-***? That happens inside of you before he pulls out to actually ***. Pre-*** can get you pregnant too! As a matter of fact the sperm in it is just as high!
2007-12-23 14:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 11 weeks pregnant, we used the pull out method.. We're veryy excited though. But yes I am proof that this is possible. Relax and take a test in a couple weeks. Good luck hun.
2007-12-23 14:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Thats me mamaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull out reduces the chance, but the chance is not 0. Sometimes a man drips before finishing.
2007-12-23 14:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... the pull out method does NOT work.. there is still sperm inside precum... you have a chance on being pregnant..
2007-12-23 14:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by <3 luke is here!! <3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, its a very small chance but a chance none the less. We all make mistakes and its good that you understand that already and have admitted it.
2007-12-23 14:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always a chance... if you can get to a clinic and get the morning after pill... that will help reduce the very small chance.
2007-12-23 14:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by etainbutterfly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋