so bad. Do u ever get sad at chritmas time?
2007-12-23 13:59:06 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
my son, Brandon, died on June 17, 2004, he was 12 years old. No, Christmas hasn't been the same....never will be, nor will any other holiday.
2007-12-23 14:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. It just isn't right to outlive your children. Please try to go on with your life. Your son wouldn't want you to keep mourning til it ruined the Christmas season. If you have other children then you must put up a good front for them at least. Try to find a support group in your area for parents of children that have passed. It can really help you. Please believe me. There are others feeling your pain and they can share in your pain. I miss my Daddy very much. He's been gone four years and sometimes it feels like it just happened. But, since I'm a Christian i know I will be seeing him again someday and that helps. Honey, if you don't go to church please go. Tell the pastor you feelings and he can help you also. I pray peace for you and many blessings. I will pray for you. God Bless.
2007-12-23 22:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCamper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, many people have experienced losses that greatly reduce the joy of Christmas. You have experienced a very personal loss. Grief is a process that can override almost everything for a long while. I can neither diminish your grief nor speed up it's progress. I hope your heart can heal.
2007-12-23 22:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my age....no is the answer.
Many have died.....also many have been born.
I've geared my mind to the children, childhood is short, make it a happy memory for them. I have a new great neice this year, what a joy it is, her first Christmas, her first candy cane. Think positive, think of the children in your family, even the extended ones.
2007-12-23 22:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Gramma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God bless you I'm sorry for your loss.
Yes I get sad this time of year it's just some thing deep inside of me I can't figure out.
Pleas try to have a wonderful Christmas.
2007-12-23 22:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by jeffkuehn15057 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did not say if you had other children ,i have not lost a child and i can not say that i know what you are going thur,but it has to be hell and i wish i could help you.try to remember the good times and try not to dwell on the bad.i am sure that your son would want you to go on.have you tried to volunteer at a hospital or shelter sometimes by helping others in the end you help yourself to.God Bless You
2007-12-23 22:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by alabama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this year yes i wont see my dad my mom got a order of protection on my dad
2007-12-23 22:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by DQ lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋