2007-12-23 13:48:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If I were a man...I don't think I could. I think it would lead to complication down the road even if I thought I could get over it. Possibly resentment toward the child and toward your spouse. But I suppose it depends on the circumstances.
2007-12-23 13:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Megan B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This would mean she was sleeping around while you were engaged??? Right?? Are you ok with that?? I don't think it's a very good idea to marry her unless you don't care about it one way or the other. Will she do it again?? If she did it once.............. As the child gets older you may feel resentment and anger toward your fiance and the child. Are you financially and emotionally prepared to care for another man's child and raise it as your own? Will you be comfortable with possibility of having the baby daddy in the picture? Marriage isn't always a great idea for people. It's hard to end it if it doesn't work out. It can get messy and ugly......especially if a child is involved. Even if you arent't the baby daddy, you need to find out what will happen if you marry her and it doesn't work out. Can she get child support from you???? Check everything out first. K?
2007-12-23 13:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by lacrosselover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably not, a recent survey in Australia found that a very high number of births were not from the fathers dna, I suppose if a guy really wanted to raise a child and was open minded he would raise the kid as his own, and the real father would have absolutely no say in the matter.
2007-12-23 13:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by peacemunga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. This clearly shows a lack of committment to the relationship. Your fiance has shown that she is not trustworthy and trust is the biggest issue in a relationship.
2007-12-23 13:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by fairiepenguin 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope
2007-12-23 13:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Bull 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope. I broke it off as soon as I found out. I never looked back.
2007-12-23 14:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by MICHAEL R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i loved her enough cuz i kno by experience that I can make mistakes like that and i would b able 2 fogive her! luv ya!
2007-12-23 14:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by emolover 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would you? If she's carrying another person's child, are you going to be responsible for that child its whole life? Can you trust her? More details of how might be useful.
On face value, NO>
2007-12-23 13:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by jack w 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love her you will. Everyone makes mistakes, big or small. If you feel she is the one , dont let her go. Give her another chance. If you cant find it in your heart then move on.
2007-12-23 14:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by big_red31331 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless she got pregnant before I met her ( and I'd have to be drunk and stoned to propose that quick to a woman)...She'd be gone in record time....
but I'd let her at least call the baby's daddy to come get her before kicking her to the curb
Usually however I find they won't admit it's not yours and let you raise it as yours until something happens such as a split, kid turns 18, or health dictates a DNA test...
2007-12-23 13:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by gearbox 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋