i don't think she is a true friend because she is always insulting me then saying i'm the one being mean and going against me and she says stuff like i'm ugly, i've asked people on here if i'm ugly and everyone said i'm wicked pretty and stuff, and then she will always ask to sleepover and i always lie and say no because she's just going to make fun of me more. and if you ask me, she's the ugly one!
2007-12-23 13:31:33 · 57 answers · asked by keℓsey<3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, she does not sound like a true friend. It sounds like she's jealous of you, really, and is casting her own insecurities (ugliness) onto you.
Start keeping your distance. I wouldn't have her over to spend the night, either. Who needs that aggravation?
2007-12-23 13:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar Pie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she is not a true friend I've had friends like that then i had true friends who told me none of those things are true. She's jealous of you, evidently you have something she wants and will never have. Especially because she tells you you're ugly when she is ugly on the inside and out for treating you that way. Don't care about what she says because you know you are beautiful and whatever she says doesn't matter because it isn't true.
-Stay beautiful remember from the inside and the out!!
Merry Christmas!!
2007-12-23 13:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by America's Next Top Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend and when you decide you are tired of the stuff she is saying to you dump her there are real friends out there . When you are real friends you don't tell each other bad things about each other. You are both beautiful and need to feel it so just let her go.
Or tell her to stop cause someone that cares will stop and since u wrote for help you should do something fast about it before you fight and end up enemy's. life is more than BS.
2007-12-23 13:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a friend and you can see why if shes joking around or not she wouldnt do that especially if she knew how you would feel about the situation i would let her alone and go head on about my business i can tell you this though GOD is and the only #1 friend you should always have cause you can count on him and he wouldnt never call you ugly cause you are his child believe what i am saying cause it is true you can make a decision and keep letting her insult you or you can make the right decision and let her alone let her be by herself you dont need to be around negativity and thats exactly what she is. you will never get anywhere being around negativity
2007-12-23 13:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't insult friends. They should be there for you, not to embarrass you or make fun. And if she is asking to sleepover with you, how could you even think of saying yes? Freeloader! Plus, if your married, or not,or in any kind of relationship, I hope they really appreciates you for who you are. One person shouldn't change your world, because you know who are.
2007-12-23 13:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Music Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you girl. why did u become friends in the first place? Tell her to back off and leave you alone because a true friend will never be mean and say mean stuff. It is obvious that she is a bully, fight for yourself and don't let her put u down. you deserve better and no one should ever say things like that.
2007-12-23 13:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you don't need people like that in your life. If she is bringing you down then she is not a true friend. A true friend is some one that is there for you, supports you, listens to you, etc...not some one that talks about you, Don't you let her get the best of you!!
You know in your heart if she is really worth having as a friend or not.
Good Luck
2007-12-23 13:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by christineleigh23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No true friends would call you ugly, even if they WERE joking. I happen to think she's being a really big hypocrite and that she's using you, for your sleepovers. A true friend = Opposite of her. Good luck with her?
2007-12-23 13:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by evaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, be brave and start easing away from her without coming out and telling her what you are doing. Just stop calling so often and then cut back on that, and just be a bit busy and just ease away from her slowly but surely. Don't just keep taking the abuse, be brave and start slowly moving away from the relationship. Don't confront her head on ever, either. Just make excuses and keep moving away slowly. If she trashes you and you are supposedly a friend, she will trash you even more to everyone in town if you confront her. So just ease off.
2007-12-23 13:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that doesn't sound like a nice and true to friend to me!
I think your friend is very jealous, since your pretty. And just tell her how that makes you feel when she calls you names and things, and if she continues you don't have to talk to her, or be her friend. But also you should be the better person and not
do things back to her and make her feel bad!
Good Luck and Merry Christmas!! [:
2007-12-23 13:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋