2007-12-23 12:30:11 · 61 answers · asked by Raelinskidanya 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
with tape! (:
chocolate, tears and optimisim.
2007-12-23 12:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Honey, get your own mirror xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It absolutely sucks going through heartbreak. It's so hard to get your mind to focus on anything else but "Why?" and the "Only if's". It does take time - - - sometimes A LOT of time - - - for the hurt to fade. And sometimes the hurt never completely goes away but becomes part of your past that you reflect on with regret.
My advice is to put your feelings on paper (or computer). While it is good to turn to your friends and talk out your misery, they will not want to hear about your break-up constantly for days on end. They are great for initial support, but then you must try to move on and talk about other things.
If you have anything your ex gave you, put it away in the back of the closet somewhere. Later on, you may decide to toss it out. Now may be too painful.
Don't listen to sad break-up songs. Distract yourself with going to movies (or renting funny movies) or anything else that lifts your spirit. If you have a grandmother or another relative that would enjoy a visit this time of year, bake some cookies and throw yourself into the spirit of the Christmas season. You must take each day one step at a time - - - the more you just sit around and think about your heartbreak the more miserable you will be and it will take much longer to get over it.
Be careful of going out steady with someone new in the next couple of months. While it soothes your ego, it won't be fair to the other person if it is only a rebound thing and you end up hurting that person.
And lastly, please remember that relationships like this that don't work out serve their purpose in your life. Someday you will meet your soul mate - - - your true soul mate - - - and through this tragic experience, you will appreciate your future mate more. Weathering this experience will also make you a stronger person, but don't let it make you bitter.
I hope and pray that a few months or a year from now you will look back and see how far you've come.
2007-12-23 12:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course everyone says time will mend a broken heart. I believe that if your are an emotionally healthy person, submerge yourself around other friends and family members play a sport or be spontaneous- like have a all girls night-out. Surely the laughter and company will help feel the void over time. Before you know it the broken heart syndrome will be a feeling of the past, and you will be looking forward to the next new day!!
2007-12-23 12:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by how do you say? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a heart broken too and i don't how to heal if u get the way to heal it E mail me
2007-12-23 12:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals wounds! My first major love/breakup, I first cried a lot, was angry. Finally, I decided to do something for myself. I started working out regularly, made some extra friends and I concentrated on work, my financial future, and friends and I ended up making more money, bought my own place and now have a wonderful person that I've dated for 5 years now.
Take Care ! (These other people's comments are hilarious, but I doubt help much).
2007-12-23 12:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by matt79matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds and broken hearts, but for now you just have to keep warm. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family members and reinvent yourself.
Think of it as time for a change for the better.The New Year is close at hand and it's time to celebrate something new.
2007-12-23 12:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how its broken and HOW MANY TIMES it has been broken. Everybody has a natural defensive system. Being in love is the most beautiful yet most vulnerable moment in your life because you are prepared to give unreservely. Naturally, just like our body immune system, your wounds will heal over time. Trust me!
2007-12-23 12:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all don't let anyone tell you, you can't fix a broken heart, because you can. Trust me.
1.Get a bunch of your girls together and go out or to a spa, something fun like that.
2.Watch movies, whatever kind you like. Flirt with other boys, but don't be slutty.
3.Eat chocolate, ice cream.
4.Stay home in your sweats and have fun.
5.Forget about everything that happened with "him".
♥♥ Good Luck ♥♥
2007-12-23 12:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a glue or band aid..that could fix your heart..there's no exact way of healing a broken heart...everybody are experiencing that kind...anyway..time heals everything...FORGIVE AND FORGET...start to move on because the pain will soon go away and happiness will come.
2007-12-23 12:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by honey_106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pick up the pieces and move on. You learn from it and remember that there are people who can break your heart if you get too involved. They shouldn't , but they do. Try not to get too close to anyone in the future, unless you are absolutely sure they are right for you and genuinely in love with you. I wish you luck in the future. Be strong and focus on what is really important in your life, your education, parents, career, etc. Romance will take care of itself.
2007-12-23 12:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by Paulus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since I have not much of a heart....I would have to say time would heal it. If time heals wounds you'd think it would heal a heart.
2007-12-23 12:32:24 · answer #11 · answered by fiery 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋