I prefer to be alone, I dislike most of my friends and prefer to escape them when possible, I hate love and the human race, I am very sensitive and VERY defensive so much so it enoys people very badly, I see emotion as a burden, I enjoy gore (as in people being cut open and mutilated) and I seem to have SEVERE anxiety which rules my life, there are other things but these are the main.
What do you think could be wrong?
Sorry for bad grammer and spelling
2007-12-23 10:41:54 · 12 answers · asked by Max Y 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well to answer many peoples replys about it being anxiety, that is correct but not completly as many of my feelings are because I dislike the boring and pety conversations that many people like to tlak aobut etc... and it seems whenever I click with someone I start to dislike them more and more every time I see them.
2007-12-25 09:59:42 · update #1
I think maybe you're possibly a Sociopath, because one of my friends is and this question reminds me of him. He'll eat lunch with us but he'll just sit there and not talk, and if he does, it's usually something violent. It doesn't bother me because it's him. Other days he'll sit all by himself away from all of us, and if we call him over he'll just glare.
We all accept him for who he is, and understand when he doesn't want to be around us.
The big thing is that you need to go to a psychiatrist, and I'm sure you'll be fine, and that he/she will help you figure out what is best for you, without changing who you are.
Good Luck!
2007-12-23 10:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by private 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless you are mildly autistic, the feelings you describe are common in people who have faced a serious, life-changing challenge. An example would be say a kid who becomes a 'goth' after his parents divorce. Or maybe a kid who never receives love from his parents simply withdrawing from society.
As we grow throughout childhood, our home and family need to be a safety zone where we feel loved without condition. Not everyone who is raised that way turns out like this, but there is a certain amount of depression and anxiety involved and it can affect us all differently. Instead of asking what's wrong with you, it's wiser to ponder about what is wrong with your life circumstances.
If you have been feeling this way for longer than three weeks, consider talking to a psychologist about antidepressant meds. They are NOT addicting and can really help you cope better.
Don't be so hard on yourself. If I was there right now I'd give you a big hug and assure you that this too shall pass. It will get better, trust me. :)
2007-12-23 11:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by clayinspiration 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe your anxiety with society is causing all these thoughts you have typed out. See a psychologist that specializes in this sort of stuff. Let out whats on your mind, let out that anxiety. Tell yourself you are a better person with more friends and like them. You are like in a shell so to speak, its time you break out of it and live the life you truly want to. You might suffer from some type of anxiety disorder look it up, and if you think so get help.
2007-12-23 10:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by the worr e ore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look everybodys different ok so you have to live with it go to social clubs, go to the park, do anything where you can meet other people ok when you find someone you like and they like you SNAP! you have a good friend it will take a while but friends are important and you need on p.s there is nothing wrong with you.
2007-12-23 11:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Philos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that. It's scary to think back to it, but I don't know what happened to change it. You should probably see a counsellor at the very least. I did for a while.
2007-12-23 13:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to be alone too...i also hate love and go out of my way to make ppl close to me hate me and hurt me...i also enjoy gore...i keep picturing myslef just pulling my left arm off my body and throwing it on the ground in front of me just to see it...i was diagnosed with severe anxiety...my shrink also told me she thinks i could have some personality disorder...but i quit going to therapy, so i dunno...good luck tho!
2007-12-23 11:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by julie h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the classic definition of a sociopath. I don't know if that's 'wrong' or 'right' but I do know you are not all that similar to most other people.
2007-12-23 10:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technology will separate man from society, until derangement spreads and we eventually destroy all we built. Antisocial comes to mind, though.
2007-12-23 11:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by 666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it's anxiety.
You're afraid of people, so you reject them.
You're afraid of getting hurt so you avoid
involvments.
It's an effective way to waste your life if you
allow it to continue.
2007-12-23 11:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Irv S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i used to feel the same and with me it was something terrible that happened in my past. it could be triggered by something similaR.
2007-12-23 10:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by misha_lil_miss_naughty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋