i find it very difficult to know that my mum loves my junior brother the most it pains me that he is always given all the attention. what do i do?
2007-12-23 10:15:02 · 3 answers · asked by diva babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My mother loves one of my older brothers more than the rest of us. It is one of those things you can't change and can't do anything else about. I'm sure she still loves you so love her back and don't dwell on her love for your sibling. Most parents try not to be so obvious.
2007-12-23 10:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and how old is he? if he's a toddler or baby, of course he is going to get more attention.
Generally, the younger kid may appear to get more attention because they are the "baby" of the family, no matter how old they are. They are the last of the kids, and the parents want to insure they treat this kid right. Sometimes parents do this if they feel like they didnt give enough attention to their other kids when they were at that age, kinda like trial and error.
But if you are just feeling neglected, tell your mom so. Tell her in a non-disrespectful manner that you would appreciate it if she paid more attention to you, because you value her opinion, etc.
2007-12-23 18:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this does not mean she dosen't LOVE U! yeah it's hard i totally feel you but remember that it's not th e end of world. keep your head high and try to ignore all the attention your ma gives u
2007-12-23 18:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by shay_be14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋