I have feeling my Scorpio friends are friends with me not because they really want but with due decorum?

Question

I mean I feel they want to get rid of me. One guy who ironically was a Scorpio told me something rude just to distant himself from me. In the end of these year maybe there is something in the planets' influence and make the Scorpios stop caring for their Taurus friends, I even do not believe I type such absurdity but I feel so hurt. I have 4 Scorpio friends, one of them do not want us hang around. The other tells me several words just due to 'obligations' and that's all but something will probably repeat from the past, we had a talk and I felt so hurt, now she has similar behavior, the third one is still nice with me but I do not know till when and the fourth one we just rarely talk and he probably forgot about me because he said 'I wish you all the best for your future' and since then he disappeared. If I were Cancer or Pisces then would be alright :( Or maybe there is something wrong with my behavour?

Answer 1

I'm a scorpio and I have to admit that yeah, people either love me or they hate me. And I'll even admit that while I do my best NOT to be rude, I do tend to be rather blunt, which sometimes comes across the wrong way. But the one who speaks to you out of an "obligation"...probably just doesn't feel a connection with you, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. That's me--I keep a few close friends, rather than a million aquaintences, so I need a connection to someone. If I don't, I can't fake it, no matter how much I wish I could.

So, I don't think it's totally you. Oh, as for your rude friend... I have had to BE rude to someone who just didn't get the hint when I tried to say it nicely. Any chance he tried to break it off nicely but you just didn't understand??

But yeah... not all scorpios are like that. It really just depends on the person. Some people just aren't nice period.

Peace, love and light

Answer 2

Tu parles. I have 2 scorpio friends & i am quite a scorpio myself according to the chart, no matter if this is about geocentric data or local angles. My family too is full of scorpios (big yell), and i'm quite afraid to go in their christmas panties.

When I want an easy friend, they are available however and among the quickest to reach. If a justice operates among mankind and nature in general, then it is only logical that the dirtiest are also the quickest to find and the quickest to leave. The laws of economy seem based on prior laws found in nature as humans usually copy their inventions on nature, like calendars are based on the cycle of seasons, years on the sun, months on the moon and days on the terrestrial spin. So we might just get what we paid for in life like we do in any standard shop.

Back to scorpios. Their talk is sometimes pertty cool and useful for they know a lot of people. And the reason i see behind that advantage is, they don't want to be jobbers, so they will likely be idle, or walk a few steps outside and sit on a bench where people go without a purpose, and build up experience in sweet talk. It is possibly less of an effort for them to please and talk during many hours than to do a serious job, also that might pay a scorpio better. They are the most desperate people i know of, but i cheer them because they refuse to die or being lowered, and there are far worse defects among mankind than plain humility. They probably can't afford self alienation when they deal with a disrespecful or hardly predictable individual, so they look for the quickest path and trash him/her. They just do the best that they can with what was given to them like any other being and in that sense, other signs can be pitied for what they don't have, too.

That being said some people are born with scorpio as their sun sign, and they are not in the least manner scorpios. They act like sags or any other sign/mix of signs. Apparently the constellations don't have much to do with the real nature of people so i'm looking at the angles and other stuff as alternatives.

Answer 3

well becuase taurus and scorpio are opposites, you either hate one or you love one, no imbetween. Genrally there arent really good matches. but you should find some friends...thats arent scorpios! the 4 of them can gang up agaisnt you! go for virgos, taureans and capricorns (you go bets with your own type-earth signs) and pisces,cancer like you said. stear free from leos and aries, they just piss you off (im a taurus myself). ummm...sags aparently arent good matches..libras are ALRIGHT not too good, geminis can be great friends. seems like your friends are being really mean to you. but um guessing that they have chosen hate instead of love? maybe your moon sign or accendance dosnt match scorpios type. you sound like a friendly person. go find yoruself a nice taurus. the closest friends ive ever had were capricorn, taurus and pisces. cap and taurus were SO easy to talk to. pisces i had known for ages so our bond was strong, it was hard to talk to her in person though. i think i get on so SO well with earth signs (because some taureans dont) is becyase both my sun and moon are in earth signs. (taurus, virgo) so its like a 3 party whenever im with another earth sign. Find out what yours is. go to www.astro.com and type in your DOB, time of birth and place of birth, have fun w/ it!