Im straight i think....because i like men....and iv had boyfreinds....but i get excuted when i think of women in a sexual way...but i dont if i think about men...i love lesbian porn...and dont like normal porn.....but i could never acctualy do "something" with a women...but would enjoy doing "something"with a man...i love the thought of having sex with my best freind (who is a women)...but when im with her the thought replses me.....i also enjoy talking to lesbian or bisexual women on the internet as it makes me sooooooooo excited....am i normal? does anyone else feel like this? if so talk to me! (im 16 by the way) thanks
2007-12-23 09:35:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your cultural indoctrination is clashing with your inborn orientation! Make a move past the artificial "repulsion" barrier and you will find that the revulsion you expected will just not be there - but the enjoyment anticipated by your desires will be.
2007-12-23 09:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by cosmo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're sixteen... I should be flagged for even thinking of replying to this. But no it's not normal by book standards but you're 16. Your hormones aren't really in balance. So you may be getting excited if your a thrill seeker. Is sleeping with another woman feel wrong to you?
And you just may be a lesbian afterall. By the time you turn 25 you'll know for sure... I hope.
This by no means has a cut and dry answer.
In short no it's not normal because your having sexual conflictions within yourself.
2007-12-23 17:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by jamerican01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal by definition is what the behavior of the majority of people happens to be during that particular time. It sounds like you would have trouble having sex with anyone. Quit looking at porn and talking about sex to lesbians and maybe normal for you will become more clear. Porn distorts sexuality so much that it can leave you feeling "confused".
2007-12-23 17:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry, feelings like this are completely normal at your age. Seeing as you are an older teenager, i think you might simply be experiencing your true sexual feelings. When you look at a man, are you attracted to him? or are you more attracted to women? you might be gay, but only you can really know how you truly feel.
More people than you might imagine have fantasies about sex with their own gender, but if this is all it comes to, then that's completely normal.
if, however, you feel like you want a relationship and you really want to do things with women, then chances are you're gay.
don't take it from me though, just go with how you really feel inside.
2007-12-23 17:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by thatsmartypantsgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. you have a fantasy. I think everybody does. they say Women have fantasies of being with multiple men or even being raped. It's just something that seems exciting in your mind. It's normal and it's kind of cool that the internet allows us to play out these exciting things, but just remember that it's all fantasy and in reality you have normal sexual desires and needs.
2007-12-23 17:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can accept it, enjoy it, and get satisfied by it - it is quite normal.
Forget the stereotypes.
Anything between consenting adults is normal. Go beyond those boundaries: Then I wouldn't advise.
Enjoy yourself, and stop categorising yourself.
Sex is sex. Love is a totally different thing.
The two often get confused.
2007-12-23 17:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by MikeD2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're normal. And Bisexual. Everyone is, it's all to what extent. But I think women admit it more than men. Sex is sex, chemistry and all that. Love is whats important. And don't listen to other people (including me) telling you what you are. Especially on this site.
2007-12-23 17:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by lilybear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are one confused fella.
Em, you're 16, I'm 15 I kind of know what you're going through. Hormones just jumping all over the place & hitting you @ places where u lease expect it. Whatever you are going through is completely normal @ this time during our age.
2007-12-23 17:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe♥. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're curious, which is very very normal. Enjoy your fantasies and don't do anything with anyone (male or female) that you're not 100% comfortable with. You'll figure it out in time.
2007-12-23 17:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's very normal.
check out the kinsey scale: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
this goes with the idea that fewer people are exclusively heterosexual or homosexual. most people are in the middle somewhere.
plus, let's face it woman are just far more beautiful and sexual than men, so why wouldn't that arouse even the straightest? ;)
2007-12-23 17:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by sarah beara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋