how many of you have cheated on your spouse? and do you regret it? those who haven't answer too!
2007-12-23 09:19:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have never once but i am about to.
2007-12-23 10:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by CHER 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have not. I thought about it when I was mad and unhappy, but then I decided it was too much drama and too gross. I have to be able to look at myself in the mirror in the morning. I took the energy I would've taken somewhere else and started working on making myself happy, regardless of what my spouse was or wasn't doing. I asked for what I needed in the marriage and started working out some solutions to an unhappy marriage. We were both unhappy, lonely, sad and angry. He did cheat, but then decided he was going to work on the marriage and see where it got him instead. When we both worked on the things we could control in our own behavior and stopped playing the blame game, it worked out. We asked for what we needed and negotiated solutions to the problems draining the marriage. We got very honest very fast when we knew our marriage was done. We fixed it. Cheating would've just made a bad situation way worse.
We are better now than when we started. I think I would leave before I would cheat. It is just too creepy to me to think about cheating. I think when you get to the point you want to cheat you either get very real with your spouse and start the hard work or you walk. Cheating is too messy and too disrespectful for everyone.
2007-12-23 17:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated for the 13 years (12 married) we were together but found out on our 12 anniversary that she had a boy "friend" of 5 months and he is about to move in with her. I could have been weak and had an affair with all of the travelling i do, but I stayed faithful till the end.
2007-12-24 14:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by BIGWILLR 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never ever ever. I don't understand how anyone can. If I wanted another man, I'd divorce my husband, give myself time to heal, and then go out with another man. Nobody has to cheat and I'll never figure out why they do.
And by the way, Miss.Kim, I've been married a LOT of years. My husband has never cheated on me, either. I know he hasn't. And I also know that he never would. It is NOT something that all men just do.
2007-12-23 17:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated but my husband is really good at it. That might be y we are gettin a divorce. Are you thinkin about cheatin cause if that is y you asked maybe you should talk to your spouse and just go ahead and end the marriage. You can get away with cheatin its easier for men than women but it can be done. Good luck!
2007-12-23 17:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess cheating happens when a spouse is deceived. At the request of my husbands fantasies, I've had sex outside of our marriage, (carefully!) and it has helped our own sexual relationship grow. It certainly isn't for everyone. Separating the sex from the love is the first thing you have to do. Having sex without your spouses knowledge just isn't right!
2007-12-23 17:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Candice B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never did and never would. of course ive only been married for 6 monthes but im not that sort of person. I like having morals and living by them and knowing that my husband is too. Thats a kind of security that couples that cheat will never have and i really feel bad for them.
2007-12-23 17:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I despise cheating. I have not, nor would I ever, consider cheating on someone. To me this is the ultimate betrayal and those who cheat are heartless....Neither my husband nor I have ever cheated. What's the point of being in a relationship if there is no committment
2007-12-23 17:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Pedsgurl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would never, ever cheat, and not because I'm some kind of saint or anything; but, because I know how bad it hurts when someone you love breaks your heart like that.
2007-12-23 17:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never cheated married 3 years
2007-12-23 17:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Jennie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never cheated on anyone ever. I don't see the point.
2007-12-23 19:34:13 · answer #11 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋