I am getting ready to leave my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs, we have a beautiful baby boy together. I truly love him, but he can not seem to stop running around on me, and I can not sit around and be hurt any longer. I am afraid that his family will try and get custody of my son, because they are very attatched to him. Does anyone have any advice for me, on just starting over and about this whole custody issue.
2007-12-23 08:47:04 · 5 answers · asked by B@rB!e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His Family can try, but I doubt very seriously if they have a snow ball chance in Hell, of getting it.
You don't sound like you are a bad Parent, unless he wants to go after you for custody, of the baby. I doubt very seriously, if a Judge would allow him to take the baby from you. He is too busy, running around so I doubt if he would be the one to want to get the baby from you.
I would not stay with a Man, like that. It is not good for your Baby to grow up in an environment like that. It could only lead to a lot of arguing and maybe worse. You have a right to your Happiness. Don't hang around trying to make it work. It is not worth it.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
2007-12-23 08:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW...been there done that myself. I recommend getting the best lawyer you can find. One that is not in with other lawyers and play golf and eat out together. Most times you are just getting no help and a BIG bill with NO honest fighting on the lawyers part. Make sure you get custody no matter what. People tend to make the "mom" out to be a psycho when in fact it is the other way around, the dad! I would say do not compromise your son by any means okay? Prove you are the better parent by having family, friends, priests, etc come to court to back you. Do everything in your power to keep from being hostile against the father infront of the judge too. That doesn't make you look good either. just keep positive. if any other help you need email me directly. I will help you honestly.
Merry Christmas to you and your wonderful son. I have a daughter i fought for TWICE....so i understand how you are feeling.
2007-12-23 16:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have been there with my sons mother, we have joint custody. But she is too busy listing to her family, and doesnt let me talk to my son or anything. Now as far as you 2, id try to go for joint custody with you having your son in your home 24/7, but he would get visition. Good luck
2007-12-25 01:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by bigterrellowensfaninva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless they can show that you are breaking the law, are an unfit mother, using drugs or committing other acts that they would deem make you an unfit mother, you will not have any trouble keeping full custody of your child.
2007-12-23 17:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by copious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the mother- no grandparents are getting custody- if you feel a real threat get a lawyer don't wait. your doing the right thing live your own life for you. you will find some one good, don't force it let it come to you, take your time
2007-12-23 16:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋