ok..so one of my friends constantly tells me that my bf is so hot and deserves better than me. she also says i have no boobs...gosh.she doesnt have to remind me! im just getting really tired of her being negative..how do i tell her or not be friends anymore?
2007-12-23 08:37:48 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just don't talk to her anymore so she notices that shes being rude and mean.. or confront her.. and tell her off!
2007-12-23 08:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have a very insecure friend She obviously wants to make herself feel better by putting you down Sadly she is the one with the problem Learn your ABC's theis is a poem you can find on the internet If you live by this or try to you'll be a much happier person. You are the only one who counts here!
A Avoid negative PEOPLE (your friend) places and things
B.... you should look this up and print it out it really changed my life for the better Its called "learn your abc's
By letting her affect you you are losing your own confidence and she IS NOT YOUR Friend
if you give her back what she gives to you she'll only try harder to make you miserable SO DON'T GO THERE It's best to just be the bigger person and stay away from her If she approaches you with her antics politely excuse yourself and get away from her
If she is at a function stay as far away as possible Don't be mean JUST AVOID HER AT ALL COSTS She will eventually find someone else to feed HER INSECURITIES By keeping friends like this it only brings you down and that is their purpose sometimes they aren't even aware of doing it but
it will never stop until she gets a reality slap(not from you)
Work on yourself hang out with people who are upbeat and care for you because of you.Please look up that poem and
choose all that will help you and become a better you Remember AVOID negative people place and things all that negativity will stick to you and you start being like that and you don't need that! You are a caring person!!! it shows or you would not be asking this question You are the best you there is and you can only get better by doing the above GOOD LUCK and Grow yourself up with confidence,happinessand be positive!
2007-12-23 08:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what are the reasons you keep her around as a friend??? A "friend" doesnt say things like that to another "friend"... You kind of sound like me a few years ago... until I grew some balls and told my friend off after many many tries of nicely saying "please dont say that to me". Time to grow some for yourself and tell her, your boyfriend chose you and not HER so what does that say about her... if she was so great he would have chosen her. And who said the size of your boobs makes up who you are.....??? Tell her, you dont have time in your life for negativity and tell her to move on. But before you do that, ask her what she LIKES about you and why she wanted to be your friend in the first place and then tell her all the other stuff.
2007-12-23 08:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by VMG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer - this isn't a friend. She isn't worth your time. Is this the kind of person you picture in your life forever? If not, why not just get rid of her now? You don't have to have a blow out or call it quits, just start hanging out with others.
I had a friend like that in high school and once we stopped being friends I realized it was the best thing I could have done. She's grown to be even more negative and rude, I'm glad I cut her out when I did.
2007-12-23 08:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just ignore the petit comments, she's obviously got some serious problem of her own. no matter what people tell you believe you are a good person, im sure you are. dont let anyone put you down!
i would tell her the next time she puts you down. just say something like ''why do you always have to put me down?'', ''what have i ever done to you?'' then you will get into a conversation (or an argument) but it might be because she's going through a bad time so if it is be a little sympathetic.
hope you resolve your problem and sort things out!
2007-12-23 08:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her when her boobs begin to sag and look like crap....yours will always be perky. (coming from someone who knows) As far as your bf comment. Tell her straight out, you're sick and tired of being put down all the time, friends are supposed to be there for you not against you. If she can't do that, then she'll have to find someone else to pick on.
2007-12-23 08:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by stvmatnic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need that. If she wants to be like that, then be the same, and see how she likes it. Tell her that you are better than her little comments, and you do not need a negative person in your life. The reason she is doing it, is because she is jealous. Just remind her that you are so much better than her!!!
2007-12-23 08:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sullygirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sounds to be very young so don't worry about your boobs because if they grow too much you could stay like a cow. Try don't stay up set because boobs isn't the best that girls have.
You are beautiful and perhaps intelligent enough to carry on with your bf and forget your jealous friend.
2007-12-23 08:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this girl is jealous of you. And at this rate she's not going to have friends! I'd tell her straight up "What's your problem!? If were going to be friends, be a friend, act like a friend, not like a Fool! Or hit the road Jack,(well in this case it would be Jill) and don't let the door hit you on the way out!
2007-12-23 08:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by DEEJAY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that really doesnt sound like a good friend at all. Just tell her straight out that you dont like her being so negative to you all the time and if thats how she really feels that you dont need to be friends anymore. We woman are hard enough on ourselves without a supposed friend to make us feel worse. You dont need her.
2007-12-23 08:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by Kel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A friend shouldnt do that and seems her self asteem, is very low and is jealous of u and your boyfriend. And your body? if you feel bad about it dont let her comments make you feel even worse, maybe shes jealous of it aswel. My friend jokes to me about my body and i know shes joking, but if anything i embrace my small physic, she has told me numerous times that she hates her big chest and big body. Maybe its your friends way of saying she likes what you have and since she doesnt have it you shouldnt be happy with it and embrace it-- so dont let her get to you.
She sounds very desperate for attention, tell her that you dont like it and that she needs help about herself and until shes ready to be a good friend she should even bother looking at you!
Keep your chin, up- your boyfriend is hot and you have a Kate Moss chest! :P
M.Q
2007-12-23 08:49:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋