do you and your hubby sleep in the same room/bed. I am hearing more and more often about couples that don't share the same room cause either the husband snores or one of them keeps the otherone awake. I am not saying that it has anything to do with the relationship, these are ppl that have a really good relationship but like sleeping alone cause they get better rest. My husband is a horrible snoring but we are a young new couple just wondering if others will think this is odd if we don't have the same room, like when my daughter is grown will she think we are freaks haha. Just wondering.
2007-12-23 08:08:14 · 19 answers · asked by girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
<------------ my hubby is a snorer too
Hmmmm, I dont know. I still sleep in the room with him (a newly wed). If he falls asleep first then I have trouble getting to sleep but if I fall asleep first- I sleep through his snoring.
Maybe years down the line I may sleep in another room! or try to buy a product to help him stop snoring- if it bothers me to the point where I cant go to sleep!
or how bout this- the days I just cannot sleep- I will sleep in the guest bedroom due to his snoring! but sleep with him when it doesnt bother me.
2007-12-23 08:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question!
I am not married but when I lay in bed at night alone I wish I had someone to cudle me funny you ask this question cause I was just thinking that last night how I would love to have that.
But getting back to the question I find that really strange also but all my friends who are in thier 30's don't sleep with there husbands!
I was shocked and they all have good relationships really they do trust me I am like Oprah they tell me everything and they just don't sleep together because of the snoring or just different sleeping paterns.
I find it strange but I guess it is a new thing I mean now people can afford bigger homes ect...
So why not different rooms?
2007-12-23 16:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bingo! I have no problem sleeping with my wife and her with me but the lady brings a chainsaw to bed with her. Where she keeps it I don't know, but it starts up just before I fall asleep. Now when one of us feels frisky we just sneak to the others room, it's all very playful and seems almost naughty, but, I have never slept better in an average bed than during the 20 years we have been sleeping in the same bed. It's not any way near the end of our marriage. She has been and always will be my best friend. And nothing gives a more clearer signal that she is hoping for a bit more than a foot rub than the squeaking of the bedroom door around 1 in the morning. I just have to smile at the situation. Wish we could have done this 15 years ago before the bear crawled up her sinuses.
2007-12-23 16:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do sleep with my husband, but he likes to sleep with a box fan right in his face, and I can feel it some. So when I get a cold, because I work with kids, I sleep in the other room. But recently he told me that he does not like it so he moves it a little. Tip if your husband snores try to go to sleep before him
2007-12-23 20:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by thegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only time that I sleep alone is when my husband is out of town. I hate sleeping alone it takes me so long to fall asleep and once I do I still don't sleep very good. I don't think its weird to have separate rooms though. My dad and step mom did that because my dad snores.
2007-12-23 17:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not married, and wish I had someone to cuddle up to in bed at night ! I feel lonely, I think I might get married soon ! We'll see when the time comes.... :)
I hope you and your husband sleep in the same bed forever, there's no need to sleep in separate rooms, both of you are married, both are you are bound together, both of you make one !
2007-12-23 17:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and the wifey sleep together. From time to time one or the other gets up because the other or the spaniels might be snoring. just a thing would not change it. i go to bed and get up early and she goes to bed and gets up late. So time to rest when the other is not there if need be.
2007-12-23 16:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very strange situation between my husband and I we have been ,married 11 years and counting and no we do not sleep in the same bed and we never really have either we do love each other but I am a huge bed hog and we tried sleeping in a king sized bed and it still didn't work so we know sleep in separate beds
2007-12-23 19:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by Debi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I always sleep in the same bed. He works 3rd shift, but when he's home it's great. I have a really hard time sleeping without him.
2007-12-24 01:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 24 years, I have always had my own bedroom. In the evening my husband goes to bed with me, but gets up at about 2 to go to the restroom and goes to his own room, before I retired I would get up to go to work at 5, and he didnt go until 9 so I hated to wake him, plus I like music in my room in the morning and I exercise...it has always worked for us...and yes, we still have sex, in both bedrooms...
2007-12-23 16:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋