But I heard from several people that their are many things muslims do and possibly say to you before the actual marriage. I was wondering what these things are. I heard their was a whole list. Are their questions they ask you? Are their things one MUST do?
Im curious...help.
2007-12-23 07:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by whateva12 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They don't do anything. All that happens is you meet each others parents (if it hasn't happened already). Culture wise this is also the time to discuss things like kids, lifestyles etc. But these are the things you would do in a lot of cultures.
2007-12-23 08:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by ertyu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should be close enough for you to ask him this yourself if he's proposing marriage? unless he's PURposed, which that I am not aware of..lol. Figure out what marriage means to him and you before you both jump into life based on just a proposal.;)
2007-12-23 07:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
look don't EVER let him take you back to his home country even for a 'quick' vist because you will never come back be confined to the house and rules, he will expect you to become Muslim he will expect you to wear a veil, be obedient and submissive, i just worry for you because i know of a lady who was married for 20 yrs to her Muslim husband he took her and the daughter to his home land and they had to escape because he was trying to enforce his daughter to marriage at 18 and beat her so really i hope you make the best decision!
2007-12-23 08:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what race is he? im iranian and muslim for that matter i dont get what you mean by things they say before marriage...as long as ur a virgin and you can cook your all good
2007-12-23 07:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run. The more you learn about Islam the more you have to fear especially as a woman.
Islam discourages dating and wants it's followers to marry... that may be why he is seeking a spouse. Many miserable marriages result because they jump into it too quickly.
2007-12-23 07:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Uhhhhh, for starters, go to the Religion section instead of the LGBT section. PROPOSED...not 'purposed'.
2007-12-23 07:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, there isn't a list . You will be asked if you accept him for a husband .that's all.
2007-12-23 08:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by 𝔸𝕪𝕒𝕕 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should post this in a different section
2007-12-23 07:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a gay site . We dont care .
2007-12-23 12:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋