what would you feel if the person you love so much got married...taking into account he never loved you back ??
2007-12-23 05:42:55 · 14 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off, I would not waste my time having feelings for someone that didn't clearly have the same feelings for me.
So if they got married, you wish them the best, and you go on with your life.
What else would you do?
Because if you interrupted the wedding, or their lives after the wedding, then you're only making a jackass of yourself.
2007-12-23 05:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone who didn't care for you? I don't know if you ever had a relationship with this guy, but if you didn't then you can't know whether or not you really loved him. If you were involved and it didn't work out and he chose someone else, then yes...I can understand why you would be sad. It happens to most of us. We lose someone we really care for, and later find out they are dating, or marrying, someone else. We always wonder why we weren't the one. Hopefully you will get out in the dating world and find someone new. He isn't the only guy around.
2007-12-23 13:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what will happen: You will go through a period of mourning. And then you'll meet somebody much, much better. Then, ten years into your happy marriage, the person you originally loved will surface back into your life and you will say to yourself, "What the hell did I see in that guy?"
2007-12-23 15:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One sided unreciprocated love isnt love no offense from experience i did do it for 3yrs but having no relationship no bf no past perfect girl he still wasnt into me or loved me like i should be loved turned out to be abusive.Until i met someone who loved me that way we got married and very happy.Move on its not meant to be.
2007-12-23 13:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by aarohap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was sad, but, I got up on my feet and moved on, and now he's divorced, had tried getting back together with me, and I know longer have ANY feeling for him, as I allowed myself to love somebody else
2007-12-23 13:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Girly Q 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy he didn't marry me cause he is a loser and i would not love someone if they don't give a care about me ...your confused about what love is...
2007-12-23 14:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by just bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel really bad inside and upset espeacially if it was someone that i loved and really wanted to spend my life with and had alot of feelings with.
2007-12-23 13:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heartbroken, lonely, suicidal.....these would all be the feelings....
but if the guy didnt love u back...it wasnt meant to be....what a slap in the face of life!
please keep in touch because i really care about fellow broken hearts... or those still grieving (which is what i try to deny)
2007-12-23 16:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd realize it was time to move on to someone who would love me back crazily and marry him :)
2007-12-23 13:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd chalk it up to a lesson learned. Just because YOU have feelings for someone doesn't mean they HAVE to have those feelings for you. Time to grow up.
2007-12-23 23:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋