why do I have a fear of being around ppl I dont know?

Question

Its not in all situations. At school (i'm a senior) I'm fine, i enjoy making new friends and meeting new people.

outside of school is different though...

maybe its just because my family is here?

were having X-mas dinner early today, and there are a lot of ppl in the house i dont know. like i'm not sure how we even know them.

I jsut feel lik when i walk to the living room, thir all judging me or something.

I get nervous, and feel like some kinda loser.

I dont know why either.

some are adults theres a couple of teens and some kids.

I just feel so awkward in there.

man.


why Can't i handle this? But I can at school.

I just don't get it.

I feel so infrier. and I have no reason to.

Most of the adults are fat or weird looking, I admit theres a hot-*** girl my age, but Its no reason for me to feel this way.

not at my own house.

Do I have self esteem problems?

Cause I can be the ALPHA Guy, at other places.

is it cause my parents are here?

help...

Answer 1

I think it is because they can't be punished if for some reason they do somehting horrible to you, while in school they can. Also, you might not think they have anything in common with them, thus meaning you think you are a loser for not doing anything others do. That is just my opinion on the matter.

Answer 2

Well you saw it for something I havn't, but thats the point really. Families use to be a much more intense interaction, they use to be IT, they use to be your friends, your identity, your blood. Now, well now their a room full of strangers. So the ability to find that place you need to be has been perversed, ooo you could be the alpha guy, but in that situation, be pretty f'in hard, I've done it, its not a place you want to go, when you know them as just strangers....