In the sense of who they WHO they are??
2007-12-23 05:34:01 · 36 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
no. although there are some that you will find irresistible to love. but in love, its important that you could trust the person, and that person should respect you as well..coz if it isn't then, the person is not serious, no matter how honey tongued he may be...he's just playing around.
~ love yourself, its the most important..no one can love you more than you yourself. ~
2007-12-23 15:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by mesmerize_pol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty hard to love one we don't believe in...Whether it's related or not; according to the way we look at it, it's still possible! Very! To love a person and don't believe in him, it would be like making a judgment! For many others they may love this person and believe in him! If we go to a higher level, we can love that person and even go up to believe in him. I mean, we love everybody in the sense of humanity those we're not close to, could be anything and we still have this sense of loving them all...No believing in a person don't make the person "unreal" or a "liar", a "cheater"... Not to believe in someone is always related to something that happened. Could become grudge, anger, depressing. Not to believe is the reverse of believe and the same at once!
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2007-12-23 10:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by kayneriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in a lot of people & don't love them! So if the reverse hypothesis is true, then I will have to say that YES you can love a person without believing in them! You're asking about the "who" they are" and I will still say yes! Some of us really take a long time figuring out just who we are and what we want out of life!
2007-12-23 07:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Me 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Great, deep question, dear Sister in Truth Rena !
Soul Peach, and a few others here, got this right !
Defining love as the Godly desire you have to do good to others, without a sense of selfish gain from them back, then one human can NOT really spiritually and fully love another unless they really believe and Know in Spirit and in Truth that that other human person is a Real Person of I AM GOD and has potential (or Actual !) eternal Existence and great cosmic Value in the Family of God !
If you see another human as not worthy of this belief that they are now, just as they are, a divinely beloved son or daughter of God, then your "love" is not divine, fatherly love, but some partial, limited, human intellectually rationalized love or selfish lust or whatever.
If we all dared to believe more fully in the Actual Eternal Value of another Human Person, what a Spirit-transformed world would result from the spreading of this "benign virus" of love and unselfish service !
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2007-12-23 23:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.. A love for another person not in love whether you believe in them or not. I love everyone here but not in love with any .. you might have a problem with someone, as in they might of done something bad or into drugs,etc.. no matter what this person has done you still can love them cause they are Gods children..
2007-12-23 07:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is complicated. If you're visionary in any way and see
the potential in someone....you can love them for the seed
you see that can become a beautiful plant...and with hope
everlasting, you can nurture that. However, after time,
when the seed doesn't grow, love can dwindle...not the
basic love you might have for the person, but the practical
side of it. Is it feasible to be together with someone who
will never grow with you? Will that person be able to really
know themselves with confidence and thereby have the
tools and skills to know you too? Sometimes this dilemma
is heartbreaking when you have to let someone go out
of your life.
2007-12-23 12:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, one measure of a person sanity is his or her ability to handle contradictions. An example is believing in afterlife, it is just contradictory to believe in afterlife. But it is also very human to feel, at least, to feel that life works out in someway.
In some way, life evens up, makes sense, is ultimately meaningful, that we will not know about as long as their is life in us, life that grants us a sense of meaning,
but
how can we have a sense of meaning without a body to be filled with joy?
Or is it a passion for living that is ultimately satisfying?
Or is it the ability to imagine that the people following us in life
will fulfill their part in life's journey and pass it on to their offspring, and so on.
2007-12-23 06:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Rena, why not! in this world today everyone needs to be loved no matter what, no one is perfect and everyone can change, that is if they have the right people in their life to tell them when somethings they do or something about them isn't right, that's a true friend when you can actually make a difference to someone even if you don't exactly believe in who they are, they need someone to tell them... someone to give them a chance.
2007-12-23 12:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by robink71668 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to qualify the question, in that, be specific.
As you know, they don't believe in themselves, why get involved with them in the first place.
Isn't that a fair indication, that;
a) You love them, out of sympathy.
b) You have some, cohension with the false personality you love. So you don't have a fair conception, of WHO you are.
c) I would highly recommend, that both of you. Go to a leading Psychologist, for an 'In-Depth Interview'. As there is something, decidedly weird going on in, in your head, his head or both heads.
NO YOU NEED TO KNOW WHO THEY, WHO THEY ARE
2007-12-23 11:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Trent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could still love them. But again, the relationship would be slightly based on a lie, therefore making love more of a fallacy for that certain person if they didn't even believe in them in the sense of their personality.
But again, you can't really choose the one you love- it just happens.
2007-12-23 06:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by Taja B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋