Well its complicated. My ex and I broke up like 10 months ago but I still love her. I've been dating other girls since then I even think I have fallen in love with another girl, but I still can't seem to get my ex off my mind. We are close friends now but I still love and care for her the same. And now she is pregnant. I want to be there for her but at the same time I'm very upset and hurt. I haven't really shown it because I don't want her to be upset. I'm so confused on what to do.
2007-12-23 04:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by big baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should listen to your heart. Since you still love her,there should be no reason why you should not be with her to support her when she is badly in need of help.There is pleasure and happiness in forgiving others.
2007-12-23 04:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are just too close to her right now? You have both obviously moved on but you can't truely move on until you have some space between. Of course you will never be able to get her out of your mind if she is always there. So if you don't plan on getting back together, tell her that you love her and want the best for her but you need to move on with your life and need some space. This doesn't mean that you can't be friends and meet for lunch now and again, but you have to start a new life with out her...the sooner the better! She needs to do the same, since she is now starting a family with someone else.
hope this helps
2007-12-23 12:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pedsgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard when u break-up with someone u love and have been with for along time! personally i dont think u ever loose the love for them if it was REAL, but it grows into something else after awhile. If you were that happy together be there for the baby and let her know ur not a dead beat dad and if its ment to be, then she will come back with open arm on bended knee begging u take her back becuz she realized her mistakes! its hard but keep ur head up and focus on one day at a time
2007-12-23 12:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clear your thoughts if youre confused, is not fair for your current gf and your ex, youll end up playing them both.
2007-12-23 12:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by suehellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋