2007-12-23 02:21:05 · 40 answers · asked by anil m 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you can't learn to love.
each person has their own unique way of loving someone and showing that they love someone.
it's human nature.
2007-12-23 02:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many people intepret love in many ways. First we should try to know the real meaning of love. I too just looked into the dictionary. The excact meaning of love what I interpret is - it is a feeling of affection, compassion or attraction.
This feeling you may get on - an individual, on a hobby, an object or person you like. Love is irresistable feeling. We express it where it is legal and safe, and we don't express where it is illegal and harm us by doing so.
But the natural love is a feeling which you will get when you like something.
As "shanky" rightly said, the child love is pure because it has no intervention of mind calculations.
Love is a natural feeling which cannot be acquired.
You can acquire a nature like - compassion and forgiveness, but not a pure feeling of love. It has to be felt.
2007-12-23 16:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by philos_offer55 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All emotions are natural and can not be learnt or acquired. Anything that is learnt or acquired does not remain natural, it becomes man made full of flaws.
2007-12-23 18:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by crewsaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is natural. It can be acquired and learnt, sometimes the easy way, and at times the hard way.
2007-12-23 05:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by maynze2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is natural. God made us to want companionship with other people so it is acquired, but for those who grow up in a family where love is almost nonexistant it can be taught by the people surrounding the one who needs the love.
2007-12-28 04:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by MIzuki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a bunch of answers for this one.
Love is aquired by two people who are meeting each others emotional needs on a deeper level then just physical attraction. That is just called lust. The Greeks had three words for love. Friendship love, lust love, and agape love which is wishing the highest desires for the other person. I have found that love is a choice for me. It is where I choose to focus my emotional energy towards my wife not give up when she does things that I disapprove of. It is easy to refocus toward a fantasy of someone else but keep in mind all is fantasy until you live with them.
2007-12-24 00:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of back in the day that there were arranged marriages and after some years they fell in love. I personally feel that it comes naturally. I think that being taught to love is taught by loving parents as a child and having loving people around you.
2007-12-23 07:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by just me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were born lost, evil and we have to be born again in the Lord. We have to learn a new way to live that is according to God's standards. It is not easy at all. Our natural nature is selfish and mean even deceptive. We will never be perfect but or Jesus would not have to have died. But if we repent of sin God forgives us unless we are purposely practicing it and called our selves good then we are not covered by Christ sacrifice.
2007-12-23 13:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally, Love Is, substantial, effulgent, and eternal...love, on the other hand, as shown in the changing realities of those who claim to "love," is another matter. Egos reach out to one another with self-created expectations, and find only temporary fulfillment; some come to agreements or compromises with their loved one; some suffer childhood abuses that implant false ideas of loving another; some prefer an unloved life to remain hidden. There are many possibilities when considering love at the mundane level, as many possibilities as there are beings. So, with this approach, how can love be natural? Perhaps the impulse to love and be loved wells up from the internal/eternal wellspring of Divine Love; but until one is self-realized, Natural Love is beyond the consciousness of the many who are limited, ego-involved beings. I am Sirius
2007-12-23 04:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by i am Sirius 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It can be anything you want it to be,
To understand it , & feel it, takes compassion
To receive it , Without taking advantage of it , is a growing process in which we learn to care and except love.
You acquire love by sharing love.
Nothing is natural ,It all started some place ..
Everything Grows,Learns and Acquires certain things to survive its existents .
2007-12-23 02:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For many people love is natural, for others the talent is acquired and It definitely can be learned.
2007-12-23 02:24:06 · answer #11 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋