2007-12-22 23:18:57 · 18 answers · asked by MM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls say yes, some say no. I suppose it has something to do with your hymen and how intact it still is. Sex is always better when it's an expression of love and not just list.
Ask him to get his head under the covers and take care of you first. Maybe get some extra lube, and make sure he knows to go slow at first and see how it is.
2007-12-22 23:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for waiting until marriage to encounter sex.
The first time...yep, most likely will. If you are aroused on the first time that you have penetration from your man, it will be a sharp pain when he fully enters you but the arousal part will soon over come the pain.
If your man knows what he's doing it will a welcomed relief as your body explodes.
Best suggestion is relax, do what comes natural and use a lubricant.
2007-12-23 07:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I haven't done it yet, but what I do know is that you're smart to not have sex befor marriage, therefor your lover mustn't love you for the sex. So, if it DOES hurt, tell him and because he loves you, you guys will find a way on how to make it feel good.
2007-12-23 07:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can if you're not ready mentally and physically. Let yourself go on your first time. Just lay back, close your eyes and FEEL all the caresses and kisses. Don't think, "What should I do? Am I doing this properly?" etc. Just FEEL. And then the passion should surface and then it'll come naturally. Good luck and enjoy! :)
2007-12-23 07:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by FireyBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard it's not as bad since you waited. Don't worry, every woman that's had sex has gotten through it, so there's nothing to worry about. I'm sure it will be even less of a problem if you're aroused.
2007-12-23 07:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by illunatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. You will most likely bleed. There is alot of information on the net for that kind of thing. Good luck with it all.
2007-12-23 07:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Johny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes 1st or 2nd time it usually hurts. you might bleed too, but the third time will be best, it will be well worth it. good luck, its nice to see someone with the will power to stay a virgin until marriage.
2007-12-23 07:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And don't expect the first time to be "magical" as it is more Awkward and uncomfortable at best.
2007-12-23 07:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by ChemoAngel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes It will hurt very much especialy depending on your frame size and the size of your man.
2007-12-23 07:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by roberzie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends, mine didn't but I didn't really like it either. My friend told me her wedding night was her first time, and she enjoyed it because it was all about love.
2007-12-23 07:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋