pretty embarassed to ask this but i am totally out of ideas.....lately mine and my fiances sex life hasnt been working out so good...it feels like im the only one getting enjoyment....please tell me what ways could i really turn him on??? so it would work out alot better??? please tell me in detail i really want to impress him..
2007-12-22 22:42:51 · 15 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get you a adult video and play it during sex. try to do the things they are doing on the video (Role Play) this should spice things up.
2007-12-22 22:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mickeytopdog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try
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2007-12-22 22:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by JH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know what all you have already tried. I recently added some skanky lingerie. That got his motor revved up. I think hot sex for most couples comes n waves. How nice it would be to have it all the time, but I feel that you would just get used to it and it would lose some of its appeal. Maybe your fiancee just has alot on his mind right now? There could be a million and one reasons why your current sex life isnt as rad as you think it should be. Maybe talk it out. See what he has to say, and go from there. GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-22 22:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't blame each other. Satisfaction of only one partner is natural & common. 2. Anxiety kills sex. 3. Have good sleep 4. Maintain hygine including oral and genital. 5. Do lot of foreplay. 6. Sometimes condom helps. 7. Oral sex is extra stimulnt. 8. While he is inside she, he should go slow and slow till se is satisfied and then vigorous. 8. Lady on top also helps. Enjoy!!!!
2007-12-22 23:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by SatishK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tease him. put nice underwear on and a bathrobe. when he comes home for dinner you have a nice meal prepaired with candle light. ay you're hot and put the bathrobe off, and tell him he's only allowed to look, not touch! you let him be horny for the rest of the night and award it with good sex. at the end of the night he'll be so eager to make love. If you have a fireplace, that's also a really romantic to do it there.
2007-12-22 22:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Marlieke89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
foreplay first is a way to get him turned on. Try to play around his private area with a feather touching him softly and gently. Then blindfold him and blow on the areas that turn him on, preferbably around the groin area and the chest. Kiss and lick him from head to toe until he shows extreme responses of pleasure and then prepare to do what comes natural. Give it a try. My wife tries it on me maybe it will work on him!
2007-12-22 22:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by OUT OF ORDER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't get bored with sex. Are you chaining him up so he can't do anything? If not he should be able to find ways to amuse himself and make sex enjoyable on his own. Guys who act bored having sex with their partner are probably getting a little on the side. Sorry.
2007-12-22 22:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
change it up. Try Role Playing, sexy lingerie, try different places, new positions. What about dirty talk and excitement. Get real into it, squeeze him with your legs, squirm and moan, get real vocal about it. Try bringing props like whipped cream, flavored body lotions, feathers.... What about getting or tying him up? Anal? Maybe a spontaneous bout in the backseat of the car or somewhere risky?
Why don't you ask him if he has any fantasies and tell him you want to help him act one of them out. Make sure he isn't holding back for fear of weirding you out.
2007-12-22 22:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are potentially hundreds of answers to this question. I'm going to eliminate a lot of the static for you in one, simple statement:
Find his porn collection, and you'll find his fantasy.
...but beware, as once this dragon is seen, it cannot be unseen, and there are dark forces at work, hiding in the shadows.
2007-12-22 22:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The beginning (and the secret) to "better sex" is communication.
Maybe try working on that.
2007-12-22 22:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Crusty P. Flaps 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋