Is it ever possible to keep a sl*t as a gf?
I'm just depressed in finding the truth even though it was great sex. :O/
2007-12-22 21:48:02 · 14 answers · asked by clueless101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please I don't mean to insult woman, but this is something she admit herself. She sleeps around and even encourages me to do so. =/
2007-12-22 22:13:46 · update #1
This was no single date and rest assured we've talked for more 3 months before I've even touch her.
2007-12-22 22:26:28 · update #2
depends on what you mean by that.
if she is cheating - no, can't maintain the relationship.
if you mean she is a nympho, then if you can keep up - yes
2007-12-22 21:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you met this girl. You thought she was a nice girl. You took her out and slept with her on the first date. What exactly makes you think she's a sl*t, what did you find out? What exactly do you consider a sl*t? Are you guilty of being one yourself?
I generally try to give her the benefit of the doubt and take all the rumors with a real grain of salt. I mean, what do other people know? How many times have rumors been started and then exhaggerated just because someone else wanted to avenge hurt feelings or climb the social latter. Just because a few people have told you the same thing, doesn't make it true. Especially in Highschool. I always try to walk in her shoes before passing judgement. I'm usually not weak minded enough to let other people tell me what to believe and what not to believe. I like to form my own opinions and judgements. I feel I'm sharp enough to do that and see through some simple lies easy enough.
If you like the girl, get to know her first and be willing to cut her some slack. Maybe she'll prove herself to you. If you discover for yourself that she's not what you're looking for then move on.
2007-12-23 06:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can keep this person as girlfriend if you like her. people have a past and that should not affect what you and her have created. if you allow that to get in the way then it will show what kind of person you are because even you have a past and maybe you should be honest with her and not name call her. after all you did not name call her when you slept with her. if after all this ordeal you still want to be with her, then that means she brings something special to your life. if not, then she was just another person you decided to have sex with, but respect as a person and be upfront with her that you can only be friends and move on with your life. but if you name call her then you are no better than her being a sl*t....
2007-12-23 05:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by babyjo882002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she a 'sl*t'? How did you come to this judgement? Who do you think you are? Is she a 'sl*t' because she enjoys herself? She has every right to sleep with as many guys as she likes. Good on her. I hope she leaves you though, sexist prick.
Clueless> ok, fair enough. She obviously wants an open relationship. If that is not want you want then you should not start a relationship with her. Open relationships must be based on mutual agreement.
2007-12-23 05:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by a las barricadas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh how the mans mind works, it amases me. If you would have taken her out and not gotten any sex, then she would have been a frigid, ice maiden. Make up your mind what you want. If you want a girl that doesn't have sex, then don't try and get any. Show her some respect. Now we can call you a Whore Monger.
2007-12-23 05:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude.... Who cares... are u planning on marrying this girl?? No! Didnt think so so go with it and if she is the SL** u say then she dont care either!
2007-12-23 05:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not its close to getting a date with a hooker,the only difference is you get to have sex with her for free,so if i were you keep her as a gf but not seriously,in that way if she decides to ditch you anytime at least you dont have an emotional attachment to her but pure sexual stuff,hey its free sex so shes a keeper for now
2007-12-23 05:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise never repeat follies.
2007-12-23 05:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep her... at least you know what could happen be prepared... and always use a condom!!!!
2007-12-23 06:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by caincasteel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh typical i guess lol, just make sure she's only involved with you
2007-12-23 05:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋