I met a guy on an online dating site. We went to the movies and coffee. I was nice and friendly but he did not seem all that interested. Interesting, because before we met he said stuff like I was sent to him from heaven above and acting like we had a future together. I checked out his profile and it was all sexual. I think maybe he wanted sex and when I was just friendly and that's it, he lost interest.
Last night he IMed me and said he has met bitches and users and abusers. I am not any of these things. Why would he go for these types that use him when I am a nice decent woman and I would never use him and be faithful to him?
2007-12-22 19:57:20 · 38 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey,
your choice wasn't right,
he think that all ladies here as what he mentioned and this is absolutely wrong, there are alot of kind women here need to communicate with other in proper way,
not always think about sex and when we will have it,
this ridiculous.
forget him.
2007-12-24 20:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Taha* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like someone whose only interested in having sex with any woman, even if it's with some sleazy sleazy hoe. All the nice things he said to you were probably just an act to try and seduce you. Hopefully you didn't go that far, as who knows what diseases he might be carrying from all that sleeping around.
Trust me, you're better off finding someone who can genuinely appreciate you as a person not as a sexual plaything.
2007-12-22 20:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by I.P. F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a little hard to understand his motives based on little information. Was he after sex? Probably. Most guys are. But that does not mean it is all they are after. I would say that if you like the guy enough to want to know him better then do that.
Psychologically, not having sex with him will most likely tell you a great deal. If he fades away, then he isn't interested in you as a person.
Take it slow. Don't be too fast to judge. Talk openly.
2007-12-22 20:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by TristanVR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys are after sex, some are just more subtle than others in their approach. That is how the human species propagates, as Jamie Lynn Spears found out at the tender age of 16.
What was your question again?
2007-12-22 20:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
answer to the second question. i think some people go for users because some people "like" to be used. most people like a chase and a user is the toughest chase of all because, well, you never get them. it's sad. but not worth your time. your real guy will need your love, sexual nature and friendship.
2007-12-22 20:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by dingan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, men are just as confusing as women! Who knows what that guy wants, and really, who cares? Don't marry the first guy you meet, shop around! Why get a used Honda when you can afford the new Mercedes just down the road?
2007-12-22 20:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by George R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you can have advise. Seek Jesus first and then if you want to find a guy urself then join a christian site I hope there you will meet a good christian man of God. I just said a prayer for you. Merry Christmas
2007-12-22 20:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sam♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he know what you liked like before you two met? I mean a full body pic? If not, maybe he was turned off by what you looked like up close and personal, no offense meant.
2007-12-22 20:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Muker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lady, Run As Fast As You Can!
Don't accept any e-mails or messages from him anymore!
He appears to be a psycho path!
You don't have to settle for a hamburger,when you can have Filet Mignon!
2007-12-22 20:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sustagurl2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want easy girls.The girls he is seeing are probably just looking for a one night stand and he wants sex but also a relationship. With these girls at least the sex is promised, but it takes so much time to have sex and a relationship.
2007-12-22 20:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋