Why do guys always want a girl with a big azz and big chest, why cant they go out with other girls with a-cups and a smaller azz? Whats so special about a girl having the "Whole Package"? I think thats stupid and that girls like me should get the same looks boys are giving to these "Developed" girls. Why can't girls like me ("Late Bloomers") get the same looks as other girls?
2007-12-22 15:11:36 · 6 answers · asked by Mz Tweety Babii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the reasons you stated in your opening sentence. You don't have big boobs or a big booty.
Guys don't look at you and say "Wow, she looks like an "A" student with a degree from Juliard." Guys (like women) always see the physical features first.
Brandon
2007-12-22 15:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can. I'm an A-cup with a petite frame--and I have no problem. You'll find that they are guys who like what they like--a petite girl, a fat girl, a shapely girl, etc, no matter what their friends think. Those are the types that will eventually gravitate towards you. But, unfortunately, that sort of independent thinking takes maturity. Because you referred to yourself as a "late bloomer," I take it that you are in high school. So, the boys your age, are still really immature. As you get older and your counterparts age, they will stop focusing on the music industry's defintion of beauty (big butt and huge breasts) and begin to take women as they are. And actually, the "whole package" is a nice shape, nice face, and intelligence--not just a nice shape. Besides, think of it this way...those girls who develop younger will look 10x their age and fat in 5 years--so, I hope thats some consolation. :-)
One more thing: the guys that are going after those girls only what them for sex or else they wouldnt be so focused on their bodies. So, it although, it may not seem like it now, being a late-bloomer really has it perks. Trust me, I know.
2007-12-22 15:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nickie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well guys are usually just really perverted and only care about the body of someone, and that's the way it will always be
2007-12-22 15:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys usually go for looks first. sometimes, it just a personal preference if they want those aspects in a girl. personally, i don't follow with that. i don't really like girls who obsess over their bust sizes. if a girl looks good overall, that good enough for me. haha :)
2007-12-22 15:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by lorenzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me the "whole package" is nothing to do with breasts or behind --- its about personality as much as physical and yes i want to engage my lady on all levels emotionally physically and spiritually ---- and for the record i prefer a lady with smaller breasts and behind --- have fun
2007-12-22 15:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
becasue guys dont look at them becasue they like THEM they look at them becasue they like the veiw. you shouldnt want a guy like that anyway. and girls like you can still get the nice guys.
2007-12-22 15:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋