a year ago.. and now they wanna start hanging again but i won't let my guard down bc i am scared of them just putting me down again i know its kinda stupid but they hate on everyone. We had a fight bc i thought they hated me bc they would just go places without me hang out with out me talk about [ i thought ] and i am n0ot sure if i was right or wrong and i am begining to think i was but what do i say to them???
2007-12-22 15:01:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
PLEASE THEY WANNA HANG OUT AGAIN WHAT DO I DO
2007-12-22 15:01:46 · update #1
YOU ALL ARE REALLY HELPING AND THANKS FOR THAT I AM GONNA WAIT A LITTLE BIT TO CHOOSE BEST ANSWER!
2007-12-23 02:51:34 · update #2
You should probably give them one chance. But the moment they start putting you down, just leave. It takes time to find really good friends who will be there for you.
2007-12-22 15:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by ☺♪♥☺♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
give them another chance! start hanging with them and get 2 no them all over again. if they screw everything up a second time then u need 2 leave them by themselves. but 4 now treat them as friends! u probably dont want to tell them ur deepest secret but try 2 bee nice! talk 2 them bout things that have happened 2 u guys when u have been apart. hoo knows? they mite have changed... good luck!
2007-12-22 15:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by eRiCa <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should hang out with them a little bit, but not jump straight back into a best friend relationship. Start with aquaintance, and when you feel like you trust them, start putting more into the friendship.
2007-12-22 15:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Meg L.H, 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
friends are very important in some people lives.
but one thing you should know that friend can hurt you the most too. if you learn one time from what they have done to you, you should learn it forever,
if you currently have a nice friend to hang out with you dont have to hang out with them no more ... they can put you down or do anything to you . if you dont feel comfortable with them , so dont go . they could give you **** again.
i personally would not ...
2007-12-22 15:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tapluy P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have done without them for this long so why not just stay away. YOu shouldn't want to be friends with people you can't let you guard down around. If they hate on people and talk about people they don't seem like great people to be around. They don't seem like good friend and they could only bring you down. Go finds fun postive people to be around, people that will be there for you no matter what.
2007-12-22 15:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by justamom_18months 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
give them a chance. you don't have to let your guard ALL the way down. if you think they are up to the same old thing or it just doesnt feel right to you then just back out. since you are asking what to say to them i am assuming they are expecting an apology. just tell them if they wanna hang out again they will have to let bygones be bygones and not mention the "blow out"
2007-12-22 15:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it slow...make sure that everything is cleared up between you and them, and just tell them that if you are going to hang out, then do all together. Make sure that you more friends than just those 2, because of they ditch you again, then you will have more friends
2007-12-22 15:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by shasta__ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do one thing, become friends with them but not to close..don't show much regard for them as you would for a best friends..they will see what they are missing
2007-12-22 15:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by imsweet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just play along.... Hang wid 'em for a couple of days and if you think that they r taking you seriously, go ahead and have fun...... U say that she /he was ur best buddy.... So watz the big deal.?
2007-12-22 15:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
personally i would give it another go.
it may work out beautifully.
simply tell them you would like to get back together with them.
if it doesnt work out, you dont have to hang with them, but if it
does work out you may become life long friends with both
of them. perfect time of the year to gor for it,the holidays.
good luck!
2007-12-22 15:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋