ive been going out with my man for about 2 weeks and i always tell him im thinking of him. he never seems to have anything to say back. what could i say that wil make him connect with me. express himself.
2007-12-22 11:52:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a difficult thing, as many guys have difficulty in expressing themselves. It can take quite awhile for him to be able to open up, as he might be afraid of saying the wrong thing, and pissing you off, or at the very least, looking stupid. Try approaching on some common ground you might have, like if he's into basketball or some other sport, get some tickets, and take him out. Just make sure its something you are into as well, or it'll be kinda hard keeping up a rapport. If he sees you're into something that gets him jazzed, you can slowly steer things toward the vein of how you love having someone to share "these kinda things" with, and see where it leads. Or, arrange a romantic interlude, dinner, dancing, and an all nighter with him, then try talking in the morning about how and where he sees your relationship going, and how he feels.
2007-12-23 17:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...guys don't do the connection thing much. You can't just say something and have a guy make a connection.
2007-12-24 01:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋