Me and my boyfriend have been not fighting but not arguing idk what its called but yea. I dont think he trust me at all because he said that when hes not in school i flirt with other guys and mess with them what the heck its not even true and he says his friend tells him this. So then last night i told him i thought this guy in his grade was cute and he got all upset just because i may think someones cute doesnt mean i like them like that. I dont know what to do im confused and i wish he would trust me what could i do thanks and please ???
oh yea i dont want to brake up with him yet?
2007-12-22 08:04:14 · 16 answers · asked by valeri ann 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's that sensitive about what you are feeling, just forget about what you said and don't mention it anymore because it'll just make him even more mad if you do. Just say that he's the cutest person you have ever seen and if he mentions what you said about the other guy, just tell him what you said on here. Say that you don't like the other guy like that. Good luck.
2007-12-22 08:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just really jealous and his friends probably are saying you're doing that stuff. I wouldn't tell him some other guy is cute unless you can back up why you don't like him more than just cute. Jealous guys can be bad if you get to serious but it's not always a bad thing to have someone really care about you. I would just tell him that you don't want to be with anyone but him and try to re-establish his confidence.
2007-12-22 16:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Adam Willis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, boys are dumb. And they dont get any smarter. If you like him then take his feelings into consideration. Dont flirt. Dont even suggest you think people on tv are cute, let alone, someone thats available for you to possibly talk to. Boys are confusing but he is obviosly threatned by you possibly breakin up or cheatin. They have egos that need fed. Tell him how great he is and reassure him that your his girl. When he feels comfortable that your not goin any where he will trust you.
2007-12-22 16:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sashalou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like that. When your going out with a guy, don't ever mention someone is cute to them unless it's a baby or a kid. ^_^ They get jealous easily if you ever talk to another guy or talk to him about a guy. Maybe his friends tells him this because he probably doesn't like you or it's because of something else. So, it's best to avoid the topic of talking about other guys and seeing other guys. ^_^ That'll probably stop the arguing and all.
2007-12-22 16:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by kuraihisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of boys have trust issues a bf i had did the same thing he would go flirt but when i did he got mad just tell him u dont like them like that u r just friends with those other boys and u would never do that 2 him best of luck girl.
2007-12-22 16:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by rinnyrooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same problem. Minus you telling him that you thaught someone was cutee. That wasn't so smart. Think about it this way; if you really liked being with him, why would you be looking for someone else? Or someone better? && would you like it if he were checking out other girls?
2007-12-22 16:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend have an honest relationship. We tell each other who we think is cute and always tease each other about it. The keys to a relationship is: Honesty, Communication & Love. With those three keys you will have the perfect relationship. I can promise you that.
Just tell him you were being honest and that you only want him.
2007-12-22 16:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that trust is the most important thing in a relationship, and if he doesn't trust you, how does he expect this to work. Tell him you want to work on it becuase you don't want to break up but you don't want him to question what your doing everytime he's not in school.
2007-12-22 16:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that he gets jealous and is protective. He doesn't want any other guys invading his territory. Tell him that it's not true, and don't say that other guys are cute... Because that's just going to make him mad...
2007-12-22 16:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rose Willow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No trust no love. If you dont want to break up with him yet then just use him till you get tired of him
2007-12-22 16:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jay S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋