i was with that girl we were laughing & she said that she likes me alot.. then i asked her if we could sleep together...she slapped me in tha face... why?????
2007-12-22 08:01:27 · 45 answers · asked by kilckas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beavis, you will never score! hehehe
2007-12-22 08:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by DaddyBoy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, simple rule of life. You only pose that question to someone you have been having sex with. Not someone you wnat to have sex with. Truly you need to ask her this non verbally. That is through body language and seductive activities. Now this depends ont he two of you and where you're both at in life. Yeah, 2 drunk forty year old in a bar may meet and go hoem together. But for two 16 yr olds it's a bit mroe ocmplicated. Why? Becuase they make thigns complicate mentally.
Just take it slow and easy. Women are more inticed by romance and kind gestures where as guys just want to get some. Don'ty show her that side of you. Find ways to make her want to pull it out of you. Then the time will be right.
Regardless - DO NOT ASK HER TO GO HAVE SEX UNELSS YOU HAVE BEEN AHVIGN SEX WITH HER FOR A WHILE.
2007-12-22 08:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hikerjoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She slapped you when you asked her to have sex with you. Answer's kind of obvious dont you think.
You're moving way too fast.
Just because she likes you doesnt mean shes wants to have sex with you straight away. She probably means she likes you and would like to start a relationship. In my experiences if some one asks me to sleep with them straight away i assume they think im easy and sex is all they want from me. It's not nice. Talk to her and apologise, blokes need to learn to be more patient!!!
2007-12-22 08:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, common sense here is that she thinks you're only after her for one thing and she's not letting you happen. Many women automatically think you're a pervert and wants to get in her pants when you want sex. These things can't be rushed into, especially if you two aren't at that level of intimacy yet. If the girl wants sex, she'll let you know.
2007-12-22 08:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you probably made her regret liking you in the first place and even telling you, because she most likely isn't looking for someone who is just trying to sleep with her..and that wasn't probably a response she wanted to hear. It would have been nice for her if you said you liked her a lot too. She probably liked you in a -I want you to be my boyfriend- type of way and not lets just be sex buddies
2007-12-22 08:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by ღThE OnE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope this is a joke. You can't just ask a girl to sleep with you. She said she likes you, meaning she wants to start a relationship with you. It takes a while before she will sleep with you.
2007-12-22 08:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by trivkc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you ask that?
You never ask a girl for sex straight out.
Through eyes and body language, you will
know when the time is right. Then sex will
happen naturally.
Bottom line: a guy should only ask hoes,
prostitutes or booty calls for sex.
You never ask nice, decent girls, which I
assume she is, for sex.
Take care.
2007-12-22 15:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by joseph t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she likes you that doesn't she wants to have sex with you. You had a lot of nerve and that was crude and disrespectful. You deserved the slap. You don't know how to act around girls who have morals.
2007-12-22 08:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because she likes you a lot doesn't mean she wants to sleep with you. We're not all sluts. You have to take it slow, not straight out ask them if they'll have sex with you. Sorry, but that was a really idiotic thing to do.
2007-12-22 08:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Saranghaeyo, Changmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st you moved in way 2 soon!! and 2nd you dont EVER ask if someone will sleep with you even a prostitue would look at you like you were stupid but she would still take your money! LOL you might have had a chance but you ruiend that! sorry but good luck anyways!
2007-12-22 08:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by wats2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you asked. NEVER ask a woman, they like someone who just goes for the kill. I don't mean rape her, but I mean work your magic slowly, simple seduction. You went from 0-60 in 2 seconds, that was the reason why she slapped you. As I mentioned before, don't ask, just work your way in slowly and seductively. Cheers!
2007-12-22 08:05:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋