ok were both 15 and we had a really good realtionship. A few months ago i finished it because he cheated on me when i was on holiday. We havent realy been speaking since but the last couple of days hes been ringing me and txting me saying he wants me bach and hes been saying really sweet things lik ' im not happy when im not with you, i think about you all the time'' and i promise iv changed, i dint realise how much i loved u until i lost you'' and 'the thought of not bein wiv u scares me, theres no uva girl like u'' but i really dont feel the same anymore. I really did love him but he hurt me so much and it put me off him. How do i let him down gently??i really dont want to get back with him and he does stupid thing when hes upset. last time i finished it he went round fighting and threw his phone in the sea lol! xx
2007-12-22 07:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this happend to me but the reason i broke up with him is because he didtnt show any affection then he told me that he loved and and then we were going back out hen i broke up with him because i really didnt like him and now hw wont stop asking me back.
all you have to do is ignore him he'll leave you alone
trust me
2007-12-22 07:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by lalala_mimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, Trust me. Ive had the same problem. He's just saying all that sweet stuff so you will fall for it and be his gf again. You cant let him down gently, he was the one that cheated on you. Guys are thick in the head when it comes to this stuff. If you arent firm with them they will just keep coming back and not leave you alone. Tell him to stop bugging you, and that you will never be his girlfriend because you cant trust him and he hurt you deeply. If he doesnt stop just ignore him, he'll give up eventually. And if he doesnt, block his number or change your number. If he constantly harasses you, you can report him for harassment. But whatever you do, DONT get back with him, he doesnt deserve you.
2007-12-22 07:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't feel the same way, then you should'nt even worry about how he feels. I know it sounds very mean, but he cheated on you, you don't hurt someone like that when you love them. As for letting him down gently, tell him that you love him, but your not in love with him. He was on that ship, but he decided to jump off, and there is no way to change what he did. tell him that you forgive him, but you can't be with him. Loving someone is giving your heart and trusting them not to break it, he broke it,and there's no way that he can put it back together. And that's all there is to say, if he yells screams kicks, it's not any of your business anymore. Let him feel how you felt!
2007-12-22 07:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he cheated on you ,and that is just NOT acceptable. And since he hurt you so much, you were forced to move on, and you did just that. So you don't have the same feelings anymore. Tell him he should have realized that earlier, but now it's too late, and that you're sorry.
Try that?^
2007-12-22 07:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Hazel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think he doesn't really love you and now that he has no other girl to out with him he wants you back. he is a liar. tell him you don't feel the same anymore and that you would prefer to just keep cool and just be friends. give him a warm kisss to make it up. good luck
2007-12-22 07:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you dont feel the same way as he does, just tell him that.
2007-12-22 08:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋