Is it too tough to forget, is it too tough to be alone? tell me friends how do you feel like being alone? yes I admit that we share bits and pieces of our emotions in this virtual network and crave for virtual friends but is there any way out to stop the painful emo that sometimes I feel like about being so alone, some friends say go get some sweet girls, get to work but that too seems awful, I just want some peace of mind and cant find any, just how much time one takes to get out of this painful love loop? I see her face all the time inside, the face I try to remember my best... it seems hopeless....
2007-12-22 04:19:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like my solitude once in a while. but really your making harder on yourself tham it really should be. Being single has advantages as well as being in a relationship. Time will deffinetly heal whatever it is you may be going through. but really you should stay busy. I do Martial Arts, Work on my car, Work at a Hospital, play guitar, date many women til im ready to settle for one, and have fun. Get out there man and stop wellowing.
2007-12-22 04:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with someone is always hard. I can tell you that even though it seems like hurt is the only life you have, it will pass. The time it takes is different for each person and the solution to handle loneliness is different for each person. One thing that will help is to find something you totaly enjoy doing and give it your all. As for being alone, that can be a very liberating experience. It gives you time to get to know yourself. Once you know yourself better, you can find a new love and things may work out better.
2007-12-22 15:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it is love it takes a lot of time to come out of it..Each and everyone has passed hru tis phase in life.. Even me.. U need to break from everyone around you.. And travel.. MAke your plans.. Don find reasons to postpone tis plan.. Jus pack your bag and move on.. Travel at places tat interest you.. You may need some money to arrange.. But definitly worth it.. I believe 10-12 days is good..frm learning ur situation.. And wen u bak wid new Zest, Don fall into love soon.. Take your time .. All the best see you.. Take care..N do burn ur gals photos if der wid u before u leave for trip..
2007-12-22 06:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is. Everywhere i go, i see people from teens to adults all having a partner and I'm just there by myself. I often wonder how it is like to be committed to someone, to have someone that I can love and will actually love me back instead of just exploiting my feelings for her own gain.
Sometimes I wish I can never fall in love. Whats the point of all this pain if the end result is still the same.
2007-12-22 04:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes and goes, and is a capricious master.
DO NOT GIVE UP!
Everyone is different. It takes people different lengths of time to mourn a lost relationship, depending on how involved it was, and how many "involved" relationships you've had in the past.
Get out, surround yourself with friends, and soon the hurt will fade. Find things to busy up your day, for idleness brings about the regrets of the past. In time, the scars will fade, and you will find someone else to have at your side.
2007-12-22 04:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by dragonofshade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard a song that made me think of you today, you should check it out, maybe it will help you out a little though I have no idea what kind of music you like! lol.
go to yahoo music, search The Show Must Go On by Queen
2007-12-26 04:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by bored worker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am alone. I shall not marry either. I find my life is moving smoothly.I have nothing to feel that I am deprived of this or that. The life I am leading is not very uncommon and I know it works well with those who are in favour of living his/her life as a "single" by choice.
2007-12-22 04:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, move on. There are worse things than being alone. Trust me on this. Ex bf's a real hitter...got out of that hell hole and moved on. It's all we can do. Just leave it behind and try to make the best out of our daily lives.
2007-12-22 04:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope that u wont feel too despressed..u will only end up losing something more precious..u have a future ahead of u..try to ponder about little things in life that really make u feel happy..if u keep on being despressed,ull only worsen ur own feelings..being surrounded by people who love u certainly gives u positive energy..ur life means more to ur loved ones..appreciate them..
2007-12-22 06:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by quaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless one is a nut case, open the eyes and open the mind the whole universe is around you, start with a nice pup, it never left Yudhishter and neither did he
2007-12-22 14:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by chuppkaychuppkay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋