How do I fall in love with myself?

Question

I can send love to others but I dont have love for myself and accept my looks. Please suggest healthy ways to achieve this? Thank you.

Answer 1

look at U & wonder who U really R


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jane

Answer 2

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I feel the same way about myself. I really hate myself and think I am the ugliest person alive and can't understand what my boyfriend sees in me. I'm 31 - I've never loved me and in a way my hatred of myself is getting worse..... but, what I do know though, is that if I don't sort myself out he will leave me; if I don't get over this I have a very lonely life ahead of me and the time has come when I, like you, need to do something about it. Hard as it might be (and believe me - I know) make a list of the things you like about yourself - even if it takes a while, even if it's only one or two things... and maybe then you'll start to realise that there are people out there who are less attractive than you and who perhaps envy you - believe it or not.

I know it's not easy, but at least you're trying to do something about it now. Good luck and if you come up with a solution please let me know, xx

Answer 3

Hard question, but I've fallen in and out of love with myself once or twice in my life. Here's my usual recovery plan:

1. Get over whatever it is which tells you you are not good enough. The universe, God, your brain, whatever you believe in most, is telling you that this person/event/idea is not right for you.

2. Find a role model. This could be a friend you look up to, someone on TV, a character in a book, with qualities similar to yours, who seems to have everything together, or is doing something you really want to do. Don't go so far as to try to become that person, but emulate the good qualities you see in them.

3. Take some time to do some hard work, or charity work, anything you don't have to do, which you can feel good about, and likely, recieve praise for.

4. Take a serious interest in something you have always wanted to do, but were afraid to try, and try it. Then, if it is as good as you thought, master it.

5. Take the time to enjoy your own company. Sit in your room with a good book, or a hobby you enjoy. Just take time for yourself.

6. Understand that everyone is worth loving. Especially yourself.

Answer 4

You are the basis of your life, any enjoyment you get from other people, you enjoy, you should love the fact you enjoy these things.
You are the only one who can achieve your ambitions, love yourself for that.
You are the only one who understands you, and realizes there is no need to apologize to yourself for the things you know you did wrong, because you understand why you did these things, love yourself for not being nasty, but just misunderstood.

It is actually impossible to truely love someone else, unless you learn to love yourself.

Answer 5

Welcome to the world of image is everything - if you believe everything you read. I like taking a break for getting back in touch with what fuels my personal fire - doing this every so often does wonders for what truly matters. Your dissatisfaction with yourself is a priority not to be ignored - the success of taking a mental vacation and envisioning yourself truly happy can be empowering. You will be ready for serving others when you feel satisfaction with yourself. The beauty of it is: no one can do it better for you than you. It's okay to listen to suggestions with an open mind, but your true vision of happiness lays waiting deep within your heart. Give it a chance to burst forth.

Answer 6

Masturbation isn't undesirable on your wellbeing. drowsing around, whether, could desire to be. there's a time-honored time for each little thing. Oh, and to respond to your question, you would be unable to tension your self to fall in love. you're able to desire to watch for the suitable lady. hold close in there.

Answer 7

If you don't love yourself how do u expect someone else to love you! When u wake up in the morning say hello to yourself. Tell yourself that you are the most important person and hey U...... I love u! All Eyes on ME!

Answer 8

Two words... road trip! Go someplace random and new, and spend a weekend enjoying life. Going someplace where everything is new always helps me when I am feeling down, or I go to places I've been before that I love.

Also, indulge in some shopping, go to a nice make-up counter and have them show you how to do make-up to really show off what you have... that's always fun!

Answer 9

it's not the same type of love, when people say to love your self they mean to give your self the say amount of respect for your self as others. to look after one not to think nasty things about your self and to understand that you are as good as the next person.

Answer 10

You need to learn to love your imperfections; seeing as those are who make you who YOU are and UNIQUE :)

You just need to accept and learn to love yourself. Go into the mirror and pick out 10 things you love about yourself. "Hey, I like my hair today," things like that. I think you need a boost of self-confidence.

Good luck!

Answer 11

Do you like who you are? Would you want to be friends with yourself? Look at yourself from someone elses eyes & see what they see! Being yourself & loving how you treat other's is how you fall in love with yourself!!! Merry Christmas! :)