im 15 and i THINK my mom knows i was drinking at my friends house because she checked my sisters myspace and somehow figured it out.
anyways, what would be a good lie so i dont get in trouble and get my privileges of hanging out with my friends back
im thinking of like blaming it on my friend or him and his older brother were drinking and i wasnt
buttt... she already knows that i drunk before
help?
2007-12-22 04:03:15 · 34 answers · asked by asdf 2 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Stop getting drunk! What's the matter with you?
I know it seems like the thing to do now, but I ASSURE you, when you're an adult you'll look back and wonder why you wasted your time that you could have spent doing something useful.
Your mother is right to be worried. You're still a kid and clearly making the wrong decisions.
Be honest with your mom.
2007-12-22 04:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lanani 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
First lie about this and then about that, then something else. Then you will forget which lie applied to what incident and get so confused you will expose yourself as a liar, untrustworth and unbelievable.
When you start lieing, you create an aura of mistrust that you will not break down for a long time. You will get caught and then the incident will be much more serious.
Best thing is to face up, like the man you think you are, and tell mum that you and they other guys were drinking. The mitigating factory is that it was at your friends house and not out ont he streets somewhere. That is the only redeeming factor.
Honesty is always the best policy because she already knows abd you will gain confidence with her in your honesty.
Best you do not drink - what is the purpose in that anyway. Are you so bored that you cannot find something better to do?
You cannot blame your friend. No one forced you to drink. It was your choice. Adding that lie only makes the first one even worse.
Drinking is for idiots. Start now and you may likely be in serious trouble by the time you are 25.
2007-12-22 04:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'm 15 too. I got drunk and high. You name it, I did it. I wouldn't lie, I would tell her the truth. That's what I did with my mom. We talked about it a bit, and now she actually trusts me more than before. I just kinda figured out that getting high and drunk wasn't exactly the best thing(obviously) but there's gonna come a day when you're gonna look back, and you're gonna be like,"Damn, why didn't I stop? I should've," but by then it'll be too late. Just tell your mom the truth, and tell a CLOSE friend that will keep it secret. They most certainly will encourage you to not drink, if they don't drink too.
2007-12-22 04:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents arent as dumb as you think. Shes not going to believe you at this point. Maybe you should try being HONEST. Go to her first and own up to your mistake. Lay it on and tell her what a mistake you made. If you speak up first she MIGHT believe you're sorry for what you did and the punishment might not be as harsh. Sorry to be an old hag, but drinking at your age is just stupid. If you're gonna do it anyway, please make sure there is someone who can drive you. Also talk to your parents and let them know that you will never get in a car with someone who has been drinking. Tell them that you'll call them no matter what. That will build some trust between you.
2007-12-22 04:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Carol P 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
You got cocky and wanted the whole world to know that you are in the "Big Leagues" by drinking like an adult. You wanted to brag about it on my space and wanted everyone to see it except your Mom. Blaming it on YOUR friends is LOW, as LOW as you can get because you can't take responsibility of your own actions. And they have nothing to do with you drinking, you gave in to peer pressure and made your choice. Part of being a man about it, is being able to admit your own fault. Even tho you wanted to act like a MAN but doesn't want the consequences of a MAN. Jeesh kid, what a pu$$y you are. I was drinking when I was 15 too, and I took the responsibility and punishment my parents gave me. Own up for Christ's sake.
2007-12-22 04:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you lie to her she'll figure that out too. Accept your punishment, whatever it may be. You should probably think twice about drinking the next time, and refrain from advertising it on your sisters MySpace page.
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time.
2007-12-22 04:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tripod T 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are underage. Stop drinking. Accept the consequences of your mistakes. If your parents ever catch you in a lie they will likely begin to lose trust in you.
2007-12-22 04:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nature is the ultimate force 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie about it. She will know you are not telling the truth and it will just get you in more trouble. By telling the truth you will earn her respect and while she may get mad, she should be more reasonable about any repercussions.
2007-12-22 04:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She already caught you. Therefore there's no lie you can come up with that will make her change her mind. There's also no reason you should be drinking at such a young age.
2007-12-22 04:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by hypur_lil_one 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, way to blame it on your friends. That's a real friend for ya.
You broke a rule and a law. Deal with it. There are consequences for breaking rules/laws. If you don't figure this out now, you will be in jail when you're older.
2007-12-22 04:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jen due December 09 5 · 10⤊ 2⤋