Disconcerting dream about boyfriend?

Question

I'm in a long-distance relationship. Sometimes things are hard because we're both afraid to talk about how we feel sometimes. Anyway, we were talking last night and I guess I made him feel bad because I said I felt like leaving because he just wasn't talking. Then he signed off upset, I guess.

Afterwards, I had a dream that he confessed on a website about having sex with this older woman and then she posted naked pictures of herself. After that I never talked to him again, and that was the end of my dream.

So can anyone tell me what any of this means?

Answer 1

It means that you don't trust him. You don't have a strong enough intimate bond to be sure he is not sending intimate energy somewhere else.

Answer 2

Psychologists still argue today about why we dream and what it means to dream. I disagree that your negative dream means anything about the relationship. However, it does seem from what you say about the relationship that long distance is not working out. You should definitely tell him how you feel -- and I would suggest you at least do it on the phone instead of online.

Answer 3

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem

Answer 4

I agree with Thomas B and Astro It is concern over his intimacy elsewhere. Best thing to do is ask him before it goes any further.

Answer 5

Obviously if your dreaming that something must not be right. There must have been something to happen to trigger that.

Answer 6

anxiety for sure