We were dating but my parents don't like him because he's at Africa & I'm at UK, I thought we loved each other but i was on my way to school with a friend on a morning & my mate said something funny about my bf's mate & I burst out laughing while talking to my bf on the phone & he accused my friend & I of laughing at his friends & him and we had a fight. That was a week ago & we haven't talked to each other since then. I think he has ditched me and it hurts because I still love him and I miss him. What should I do? Please help me.
2007-12-22 01:11:55 · 23 answers · asked by Osie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need as much answers I can get cos I am really confused.
2007-12-22 05:38:36 · update #1
What did your friend say? That would help determine if he had a reason for getting angry or not.
Honestly though, your friend doesn't know his friends. It really is insensitive & inapropriate to make remarks when they aren't there to defend themselves & she doesn't know them, & it was even worse that you laughed. I kind of have to say that I sort of see where he had a reason to get angry. After all, wouldn't you be upset if his friend made fun of you & he started laughing at that while you two were on the phone? I bet that you would be at least a little upset. You just need to apologize to him & try to talk it out with him. If he doesn't want to get back together... well, just count this as a lesson learned.
2007-12-22 01:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is in Africa and you are in the U.K., there is not a whole lot you can do. If you lived close be each other, you could go and see him and explain what had happened, but if your whole relationship is long distance, I fear you need to find a new boyfriend. If he really loves you, he will get in contact with you.
2007-12-22 09:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by judyarb1945 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should dat him...REASONS
1:You guys live WAY far apart
2:He ditched you 10 times
3:There are other guys that like you closer to where u live
4:U look down on him?
5:get a new one for Christmas
2007-12-22 09:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by free2luvbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has misunderstood the conversation if he loves you he will realise this and he will be back in touch be patient he might be angry still. if he doesn't maybe you should move on he might have seen an opportunity to break up with you and your wasting your time, either way go out and enjoy Christmas and don't let this spoil it for you
2007-12-22 09:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was looking for a reason to dump you and took what happened as an opportunity to do it. be glad and move on, and if he tries to reconcile he is only doing it because he got cold feet over the breakup, but be assured that he will eventually dump you. so don't put yourself through it and move on now
2007-12-22 09:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by DJoh437938 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling him back and explaining yourself. Although, I kind of agree with your parents, that is a very long-distance relationship and may not be a good idea. However, if you really love him then just apologize.
2007-12-22 09:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. There was more than this reason. If there wasn't more, then he has a problem communicating and it would be trouble in the future anyway. If you are still in school, don't become serious until college!
2007-12-22 09:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by BadFrog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one. You are still at school so you are too young to settle down, play the field a bit.
2007-12-22 09:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by kdee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say well I'm still looking down at you only now from a greater height.
2007-12-22 09:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Paddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pop round mine... I am Home Alone this Christmas Ha,ha
2007-12-22 09:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Best of British 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋