If a guy has a girlfriend and he wants to visit a girl he is friendly with in another country..like take vacation to see her..does he have feelings for her? Lets say they have had something intimate in the past..like kissed & flirted (before his present girlfriend), doesnt that mean that he still probably has feelings for her and that the girl he is going out with is not his 'true love'? Opinions please. (Im a girl by the way..ignore the avatar):)
2007-12-22 00:46:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
he has feelings 4 her
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2007-12-22 02:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy wants to go visit another girl in another country but has a steady girlfriend,he needs dumping by his girlfriend. How would he like it if it was his girlfriend going off to see another man in another country,one that she's had a little intimacy with in the past? And the fact that he had something intimate in the past with the girl he wants to visit spells a huge warning sign to me,he wants his cake and eat it,the sly dog. He can't have much respect for his girlfriend,that's for sure,and she needs warning about all this if she doesn't already know,and I'm guessing she doesn't,cos who in the right mind would be happy about this going ahead! If he were my boyfriend,I'd help pack his bags for him and make sure it was a one way ticket he bought.
2016-04-10 12:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might still have "romantic" feelings for her or they might just be friends. It depends on the individual.
No one here can say for sure, they are only guessing from their own experiences. Would it be fair to judge him based on the opinions of people who have never met him? I wouldn't like it.
(Frankly I'm insulted that all men should always be judged negatively in these situations.)
(For those suggesting there is no reason why the girlfriend shouldn't also go, remember he is visiting another country, there is a cost implication.)
2007-12-22 00:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by SteveLaw 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend may have that romantic feeling for her but when he thinks about long term life plan, he's not thinking to get involved with her and also if he is then he would not go out with you. If he treated you fair and nice then there's nothing to worry about. Do you know if she has a boyfriend? Would your mind chnage of sending him all by himself if you find out her boyfriend lives with her?
He might not want to take you because he maybe wants to spend the time with this special friend of his as he hasn't spend time together for a long time. I have a friend who is a guy and whenever I want to see him, I don't want to take anyone with me because the times happens to be just wonderful. We do activities but we never got involved into relationship stuff. It's just we have some good time special (friendship) moments.
Also consider how long he is going for. If it's for too long then ask to go with him and find out more information about her before you let him go all by himself. Again he might be upto something which he trusts her to discuss with only and so wishes to go alone. Ask more about the girl, how long they been friends for, will he be staying in the same city as her at all times, etc. Ask more questions and find out more then you can make your mind up.
2007-12-22 01:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by luluchicko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he has feelings for her, but it is also possible that those feelings are more of ones of friendship rather than those of one he loves. It all depends on why he got his current girlfriend. It is possible that he loves his girlfriend very much and see's you as a good friend he would like to spend time with and nothing more. You also don't mention if you have a boyfriend, if you do and he knows that fact then I would say don't worry about it just enjoy his friendship.
I would seriously say that if you like him as a friend then don't make more of it, if you like him more then you need to talk to him about it as a misunderstanding may break your friendship and worse still break his relationship, and maybe one you have too.
Careful and good luck.
2007-12-22 00:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dragon Prince 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does not want to bring his gf, then he obviously has something for this girl. that's a big no no in my book. doesn't necessarily mean his current girl is not his true love. Just means he's still in love with the old one and needs to find a way to get over her, especially if she's out of the country.
2007-12-22 00:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Privateperson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the other girl in a situation like this, and he tells me that we will be together, and he has even turned up at my workplace so that we can spend time together when he is out of the country. i am a believer that guys do not do stuff like that if they are not bothered. hope you get the guy you deserve, good luck
2007-12-22 01:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Loli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!!!!!! he "wants" to have both girls... oh, and no matter what a guy tells you, it does not matter if it is another country, or if there was a history between them, if he is friendly with another girl then he is wanting her even if he never acts on the desire
2007-12-22 00:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by j h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask how he would feel if you went to visit a guy in another country..if he gets jealous, or says no then he should know how you feel and if yes, then you should take it as it is..
2007-12-22 00:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'd like to go with him. If there's no romantic involvement, it shouldn't be a problem.
Be guided by his reaction to this suggestion.
2007-12-22 00:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion this person should not go overseas if he/she wants to keep current relationship, whats that saying again?... if u play with fire u will get burnt
2007-12-22 00:58:34 · answer #11 · answered by SkinnyT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋