darn, woke up so down and feeling all sad, meloncholy this morning. I do think it's the time of the year, Christmas, missing ppl, loved ones, etc. any sensebly ways to eleviate these feelings of sadness? OHHH, MERYY CHRISTMAS everyone! :)
2007-12-21 22:12:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
shree, i am happy to have met you also! :). you are a good friend.
2007-12-21 22:32:16 · update #1
I know how you feel!
2007-12-21 22:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It`s too bad that you can`t get into the spirit, but as long as you have to feel sad, I`ve got a little story for you out of my own life. When I was born, the world was in a deep depression. Nobody had very much, and the ones who were out of work had it the worst. As a child , Christmas was more a religious day than one of giving presents, and feasting. My mom and dad would make our toys out of things that were no longer any use, but I still look back at that time, and have some fond memories. The point is, there`s a lot you`ll remember from this time, later on in life, and you`ll see it really isn`t as bad as you think. GOD bless you, and Merry Christmas. LUV
2007-12-21 22:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by jms043 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I lost several friends this month, and then on top of that, I found out that my best online friend was a complete lie. Everything I was told was a lie. Now I'm without any real friends or family as support this holiday season. But I try to keep my chin up and be happy. I listen to happy music and attend church and let God help me thru it. Even with all the bad events in my life, I can still appreciate Christmas and all its joy that it brings. Have a wonderful Christmas, my friend.
2007-12-21 22:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, my dear lady, you can have strength knowing you have a lot of faithful friends here and at home! Christmas is a time of great joy, but also sadness too with memories of loved ones who are departed and the good times that were had. The only consolation is the hope and faith that we will all be together someday! Have a wonderful day, and smile!:)
2007-12-22 03:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by Paulus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well hip,
I'm working Christmas Eve and Christmas Day so that'll keep me busy.
Kind of the easy way out, I won't be with family and friends but at least I'll be around people.
Oh yea, I'll most likely be on here too, hopefully there will be a few of us on here over the holidays.
Merry Christmas to you also.
2007-12-22 01:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by mjfrog 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get up and and go through the motions, find a "angel" tree or another charity and do one nice thing for a child in need, or volunteer to ring the bell for the Salvation Army.
Watch a Christmas movie, just get out an walk.
2007-12-22 02:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by doug g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right there with ya buddy. Not haing a lot of luck with beating the blues, much less, putting on a big old fake smile and acting HappyHappyJoyJoy.
I love my family very much, but my self protection mode is beginning to kick in.
I'm really thinking the best thing for me to do is to leave town until the first and let the celebration go on with out me.
Actually, I owe that to everyone, and I own it to my survival.
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2007-12-21 22:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by sheek Txn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
...I relate so much...the other day, I got out pics of my husband and started making a new photo album and also of my Mom, both of whom have passed away...the trip down memory lane helped a bit...then I found an internet photo of someone in a cool looking Bigfoot suit and got busy with my photo program pasting family faces onto the bigfoot image...pretty soon, I was enjoying the comedy of what I made and ended up making copies for others to get a laugh....it was a silly thing to do, I know, but I don't care...this is how I've coped this season...and I pray for you to find some peace and comfort too...lots of love,
Evelyn
2007-12-22 03:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by EvelynMine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could take a long, peaceful drive to somewhere you like. Through the country, or mountains, by the ocean, depending on where you live. Watch a stream, or a waterfall, something pertaining to nature. Then, if the weather permits, take a nice, long walk. I'll hope & pray for you to feel better, as well as myself. :)
2007-12-22 01:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by rat racer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Darn it take those arms of yours and Sqeeze yourself
whom told you they are not your wings as if opening the door to the cold then all of a sudden you manage to squeeze the warmth with in yourself and you hope to shut the door and block that cold back in too your life your warmth
been doing that for a few cold seasons now and i am alone
but i think of the one whom squeezed me and i wonder if
he is cold under those grounds USE YOUR WINGS CHILD
and look forward to spring yourself intoo the new year //that much you got No,? And SQUEEZE ONE FOR THOSE
WHOM ARE LOST IN THE COLD !!
2007-12-22 05:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't look at the blue decorations. (they always take me down down down. Don't know why!)
2. Put some Christmas songs on the radio and sing sing sing! Loud!!
3. Give thanks for fond memories of friends and good times past.
Merry Christmas. I hope your blues soon pass! ;-)
2007-12-21 22:37:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋