how do i tell her?

Question

im 13!!!!
only13!!!
and wednesday i went to my bf's house and we we kinda........yea




and yesterday and today i woke up trowing up
so i went to the store and got a pregnancy test and took it........IT WAS POSITIVE!!!



i kept buying them again and again but they all said positive i know its my fault and i want to keep the child i told my bf and he's ok with it but how do i tell my mom?????

the wednesday i put is not this past wednesday i was 2 months ago wednesday


IF YOU THINK IM LYING OR "****** AROUND"IM NOT!!OK
AND IF THATS ALL UR GONNA SAY THEN DONT ANSWER

Answer 1

theres no way that a test would show up positive that soon. go to bed little girl

Answer 2

Wow, 13. I'm speechless. Well, it didn't freak me out that much. I mean, I know someone who is younger than you (12) and yes, she has a baby.

Before anything else, confirm it first because 2 days? Try 3 or more days, then we will see if it happens.

Anyways, no matter how things got worse, DO NOT resort to ABORTION. It's literally means you are killing your baby which states in the Bible, "Thou shall not kill." You have to tell your mom sooner or later and apologize. Or else you'll definitely regret it. She will understand, she's your mom. And that will never change.Tell her calmly, not just straight ahead. Yes, she might get hurt, but time will come, she will be very supportive. She has been through all that, she'll be the one to go to when you're experiencing anything weird.

But, you should have not had.... um.... you know what with your BF. Especially at a very young age. Well, everybody makes mistakes, and in some cases, BIG mistakes. The only solution to this problem would be apologizing to your parents, you can't keep it a secret. They will eventually find out the truth. Telling lies will only make it worse so you better tell your parents soon.

Good Luck and Hope this helps. =)

Answer 3

If your boyfriend is alright with it like you said . Then he should acommpany you when you tell your mother.
I'am going to speak to you as an Adult right now even though you are 13
I'am a mother and a Grandmother, First of all you have just started out in your teens you really Don't know what you are in for Yes it is great that you think this boy will be able to support this baby and stay in it's life and raise it But you have to remember this is the real thing all these things may not happen the way you are dreamming of. He can't even Get a Job at your folks age You are a minor Mom and Dad are responsible for you and your child did you know that?
What a burden you may be putting on the family, I told my kids flat out If you plan on sex while underage then be responsible and protect your self. Now it is to late to should have could have would have, It is done. You have to think of whats Best.Who is going to care for this baby while you finish your education Who is going to pay the sitters you have many years of school left,plus what kind of job can you get if you drop out with a 8th grade education. please don't take offense this is the real world,welfare wont help you if your mom and dad make to much money cause you are a minor of 13 your baby will be in thier budget, You made a very irrsponsible deciosin and now your whole family will have to pay ,,, you need to face the music and tell mom As grown as you were then you must be grown enough now to tell mom and get a doctor to look at you.
Do you know that your body is not even mature yet and there are complications in pregnancy for a child your age
i really wish you and your family the best

Answer 4

Hi, I don't know if you're lying or not and I guess it really don't matter. If you are 2 months along like you say you're mom has prolly got an idea that you might be pregnant, but you still need to tell her. At 13 your body can have an adverse reaction to the hormones that pregnancy causes and they can be very serious so you REALLY need to tell her. She's going to be upset but not for long once she gets over the disappointment. She'll be your best help especially since it's going to be up to her to raise your baby....being 13 and a mom does not make you grown in the eyes of the law. I wish you and your family all the luck, peace, and joy in the world and I'll be praying for yall.

Answer 5

Okay, since you are only 13 I wouldn't expect you to know this but this is why people know you are lying. The pregnancy hormone that pregnancy tests get positive results from are called HCGs. When you have sex and get pregnant, it's called conception. HCGs are not made until 8-10 days after conception. SO if you had sex on Wednesday, it is impossible for you to have a positive pregnancy test today.

Answer 6

I don't think it is possible to get a positive result two days after intercourse, however, I would suggest waiting it out for a bit more and then retest or making yourself a doctor's appointment.

The best thing to do is tell your mom sooner rather than later. I would suggest writing her a note detailing all of your questions and concerns. Each mother is different so only you can gauge her reactions best, she will likely be dissapointed and possibly angry but just give her a little bit of time to absorb it and then her concern will be how she can help you. You don't realize this now but you are really going to need her support if you are pregnant and she will be able to help and guide you like no one else can. Best of luck!

Answer 7

i can't imagine what you are feeling being 13 and all. i found out i was pregnant a week before my high school graduation and i had just moved out 2 months beforehand and me and my parents were finally getting along. i was scared to death to tell my parents so i can relate to you on that prospect. my mom's always been the "you're such a mess up" type always saying i told you so or pointing out my mistakes. but anyways one day i just called her and told her. i would suggest you sit her down and just talk to her about it. she will probably be upset at first, maybe angry, but give her a few days and she'll probably get over it and support you. there's really not too much she can say about it really. what's done is done and she'll realize it. best of luck :-)

Answer 8

Given that your previous question was along lines of "ok just laying in bed with my bf makes me all wet down there and it sometimes soaks through the pants what shouli do it so embarrsing" then it's pretty clear you are a silly immature kid.

IF this is a genuine situation, then be awware the boy can be prosecuted, as can you, for underage sex !!!!

Answer 9

hello, you have to tell her as soon as possible, sit down with her on your own and tell her, she will probably freak out, shout and scream, and she is going to be disappointed, but you will probably find once she has calmed down she will be more concerned with protecting and supporting her baby (you). the longer you leave it the harder it will be to tell her, and the more hurt she will be that you didn't go to her and tell her. if you decide to keep the baby you are going to need all the support and advice you can get, and that's when your going to need your mum the most, pregnancy and birth is scary no matter what age you are without the added stress of keeping it a secret. Take care.

Answer 10

Do some research before you start telling tall tales. There is no way a pregnancy test would be able to tell you are pregnant 2 days after having sex.

Answer 11

if your worried she is going to get mad at you then just leave your used home pregnancy test on your bed along with a letter saying that your pregnant and want to keep the baby...........leave your mobile number and ask her to call you after she as had time to think. it will be easy to tell her how you feel that way rather then being scared telling her face to face

good luck