Would you stay with them?
2007-12-21 20:16:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
if not, y not?
2007-12-21 20:16:41 · update #1
yes, i stayed with you didn't I ?
=DD
lol
2007-12-22 14:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not.
When you make yourself available to love, you'll not see it come for you with your eyes, your heart will see it.
What is a "MAJOR" personality flaw, anyway? Is it a flaw so offensive that the good in the person can't overcome it? Is it a particularly strict aspect of the person's character, or are they just so lackadaisical that nothing ever gets accomplished? Get a little introspective with your flaws (we all have them, I don't mean to suggest anything else, personal or otherwise) and consider you're opinion of those same flaws, in you, that you've seen in others.
When you find the love of your life, you may find your opinions about certain things change, while other opinions become reinforced. If, in a few months, you can turn around and say to yourself, "I've become a better person" because you're more patient with strangers and less tolerant of people lying to you, then, I'd say, you're in it to win it! If, sadly, you find yourself endlessly saying "What's wrong with me?" and you're friends never see you and every time you and your partner talk - it's an argument, then maybe it's not *the* relationship for you.
However, if it's a mutually physical thing... have at it! Why not enjoy looking at the person you're in bed with!?!?
For myself, I've fallen head over heels for a guy that I wouldn't, necessarily, notice twice; and I've turned down the 'hottest guy in the room' because of sheer arrogance.
An ugly spirit can make a beautiful person not so attractive, whereas a beautiful soul can make a 'plain Jane,' if you will, *sparkle*.
2007-12-21 20:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by arows1faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's ALOT of 'hot' guys and girls, but it ends there. (Look at the Hollywood crowd!!) Britney is 'hot' but what emotionally balanced guy would want to put up with her mania ??
It's not about being 'hot'; it's about having similar goals and / or compatability. It's about wanting to take care of the other in a committed relationship. Those with a major personality flaw need to have a desire to learn social skills and the reality that the world does not revolve around them. Those ready for a relationship understand respect and commitment. It goes BEYOND 'feeling a spark'.
2007-12-21 20:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sergio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you consider a MAJOR personality flaw. There's not a lot that I really can't tolerate. The big three would be dishonesty (and I mean about important things like whether you have been faithful, not whether you like my haircut), cruelty, and disrespect.
Other than that, there isn't much that would imediately make me turn off on someone.
If they had a nasty habit like picking their nose or sucking their thumb, I don't know. That would probably be so gross I wouldn't even consider them all that hot to begin with.
2007-12-21 20:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by graysmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes because I probably have my own major personality flaw. More than likely I wouldn't judge them because of it. I'd try to make it work as long as I could.
2007-12-21 20:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if the personality flaw fell into one of my pet peeves, if not, yes I would stay with them because they're unique just like me!
2007-12-21 20:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd only stay with them if i liked them with all their flaws clearly if i stayed and hated the flaws whatever they were... i wouldnt stay just cause i liked their body.. icky... who'd wanna be stuck with someone who was completly annoying and ..ugh.. just yeah.. not right and besides they would probly lose that attactiveness in the years to come.
plus all the flaws in their personality really bring out the uglyness in them =]
so no i wouldnt stay
2007-12-21 20:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because I feel very stongly about needing both a phisical and mental atraction to a person because one without the other is just complicated but a personality is the biggest plus becuase your personality will turn you beautiful in it's self so it's highly important to be a good person and have a great personality
2007-12-21 20:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would not stay with them. It is true that beauty is more then skin deep. Just because they are beautiful on the outside does not mean they are beatiful on the inside. I would rather have someone that was ugly and took care of me rather then someone that was drop dead gorgeous and was a B***H.
2007-12-21 20:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Wright 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, personality is more important than looks. The looks would soon fade if you were with them for long. Their attitude and personality really counts more than just their outside.
2007-12-21 20:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no becasue if they have a personality flaw i wouldnt want to be with them the rest of my life
2007-12-22 08:04:20 · answer #11 · answered by Cierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋