confused bout everythingg.wat do i do now
2007-12-21 19:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by Liliana 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Well... I'd stop look around and think about what I want, what needs to be done, and what exactly it is that I'm confused about. Take a walk, draw a picture, anything that allows your mind wander. Maybe then you won't be so confused... works for me anyway...
2007-12-21 19:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by dalbkino 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I feel like that I sleep. I feel fresher in the morning.
But before you do that. Prayer. Write down what you think is confusing you. Then think of ways that might help solve it. If you have friends, or family, you can trust, talk to them and they can help. Maybe eat some ice cream, or something you enjoy eating? ( I just did.)
Whatever you do. First calm down and do not panic. Think about one thing at one time. But if it too much take the breaks I suggested above. Then continue to work on it. Little by little. Start with the most important. Do it little by little. Then you will be okay.
These are just some suggestions. There were a lot of other good answers too. Good luck!
2007-12-22 03:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle Remus 54 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go back. You were lost even before. Then you came out of it. Then lost again.
That's how it is. Try to bring that to mind whenever this hits you - nothing lasts here, not even this. It will pass, because pass it must. But, as everything, it must have its time, so don't try to force yourself out of it, that's important - accept it while it lasts, knowing it will pass.
2007-12-22 03:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by shades of Bruno 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to figure out what to do about anything for a while. Occupy yourself with things you have to do and things that you enjoy and before you go to bed just say to yourself "Im going to work it out" and things will start to come together. Worrying about it or focusing on it only prolongs it. Thats my experience anyway. Good luck. Have a peaceful chriistmas.
2007-12-22 03:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give 1-800-525-LOVE http://www.klove.com a call; licensed counselors, free, tell your story, share your feelings.
1-800-232-6459 http://www.family.org during weekdays also licensed, good, with resources and referrals.
Talk to a trusted local clergyperson.
Make a cup of tea or herbal tea, get a good night's sleep, and keep calling, make appointments, and reach out to those who can help you.
You didn't get confused in a day about everything, so be patient and willing to let others help you sort through the confusion.
God loves you.
2007-12-22 03:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by j153e 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How can you be lost if you have no goal/destination?
Personally, i dont find being lost such a bad thing, as long as your not in any danger....then maybe you're actually on an adventure?
2007-12-22 05:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by insignificant_other 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're in front of your computer. lol. just kidding
no one really knows what to do. you have some free time? research something that you find interesting. learn more.
maybee study religions. if you dont have one, you can see which one works best for you.
get out there and do what you love. whatever you want, you just have to work for it and dont give up. me- I want to become a surgeon. trust me, I'm already working hard for it. I'm just working on my nursing degree for my undergraduate.
do some community service, that always makes me and my buddies fel better.
enjoy life. be thankful for all that you have. be willing to accept others for who they are, even if they are a little 'different'.
'do what you will, as long as you harm no one'
2007-12-22 03:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by corpsmanlove1! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
learn to sort information input better see also logic.
Also try meditation, zen provides great thoughts for contemplation that are designed to inspire enlightenment and are relevant to modern science, see quantum physics.
Also have a great day and a happy life.
=P
2007-12-22 04:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by mtheoryrules 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find the thing that makes you the most happy. try to figure out if you can do this thing for a living. if so, do it. if not, find something that you can easily tolerate and do the happy thing in your spare time
2007-12-22 04:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good, thats where your supposed to be at right now... dont be afraid but excited, things will come clear soon.....
in order for us to find something, we need to be lost first, your in the rightn path...
good luck..
things will get better but dont try to force it, it will come to you.. trust yourself..
2007-12-22 04:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by liveforu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋