Do you think hate and anger are ever healthy?

Question

I sometime feel I am addressing issues more honestly and directly when I am totally enraged. I am always told by me wife I should control my temper. But when I do I don’t get results, and nothing gets resolved.

Answer 1

I don't know about you, but when my husband is enraged he says really mean and hateful things to me, which makes me shut down and not listen to anything he says. I tell him that I am like a fencepost. Every hateful insult is like a nail in that fencepost. Apologizing might remove the nail, but what's left is a hole. After a while, there won't be any fencepost left.

Answer 2

Nope in my case when i am angry my mind dont work wonders it just creates trouble and hate its an emotion that could cause you a lot of sickness when you hide your hatred on someone and that person is always there annoying you you might have a heartattack or a high blood pressure...you are right both dont have positive results

Answer 3

To a certain extent. Being angry sometimes and letting your feelings out in a proper way are healthy, but to be angry and hate things/people all the time is definitely not healthy for anybody.

Answer 4

dont fret

im hatebreed too.

i blow my temper easilly, for like if people ask me an answer for the third time cuz they cant hear it properly.

i think being angry and feeling hate is good.

at least you know youre still alive.
it beat crying and moaning.

but too much of anger will drive to to high-blood pressure.

so i think, you should control and use your anger and hate on the appopriate moment and not just blow it.

try to control it...if i can, you surely could.

Answer 5

No they are never Healthy. They are just a waste of Time and Misguided Energy.

Answer 6

its un healthy like an ulcer or cancer its very draining all so

Answer 7

Not really. you waste alot of your energy like that.

Answer 8

not healthy but not possible to avoid

Answer 9

nope

Answer 10

No