2007-12-21 16:51:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
*crickets chirping*
2007-12-21 16:52:10 · update #1
why so sad? please tell me why you say you are lonely.... I hope it's not because of Christmas that's making you feel lonely. Maybe it's something else, maybe you don't want to say, but I wish you would. I get sad and lonely... some nights are worse than others. I can't wait for Christmas to pass... it's a year away from when I got together with my ex, and I loved him... so all those memories have been coming back to me lately... I refuse to let dreaming of the past mistakes trip me up... the only mistake i made was not listening to my heart when he started to get mean.... I often wonder if he was like that because of me, and would he ever treat someone else like she deserved, and why didn't I deserve for him to treat me well? but really, why get caught up in the past when time is moving forward? I don't know your circumstances, or why you are so sad... But remember this- The small amount of time you spend doing whatever you're doing now, as little as you feel it may be, can impact you for many years. I'm almost 27... and I can't believe how unfulfilled I feel in my life... but time is just going to keep moving.... so I'm trying to be happier in the moment... there may be a day when I'll miss being single and independent, only worrying about myself and able to have the freedom to make my own choices. But I also feel like there is so much more fulfillment in having another to occupy my thoughts, my time... that special person to take care of.... I just have to be patient... and it helps to remember that each circumstance has certain blessings. It's only harder to be happy in your circumstance if the grass always looks greener on the other side... these things I tell myself daily. Just keep trying to be positive... keep smiling.
I hope you are feeling better soon, Luc.
2007-12-21 17:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... this question is a difficult one for me to answer without recalling some very painful memories. I rather not. I'll just say that while I couldn't have prevented what happened, I could have found better ways to cope than the methods I choose. These maladaptive coping mechanisms of mine are fueling these sad sad moments...
2007-12-22 06:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny Boiler 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I pay attention alot of blame. I advise you study invoice Ferguson's artwork, you will locate him on the cyber web. I went by a perplexing time myself, yet by a team he held in Texas i replaced into waiting to interrupt down my very very own obstacles, comprehend a thank you to forgive myself first taking accountability for my strikes, reactions and absence of action, expertise how the cycle stored repeating itself in my existence, i replaced into waiting to forgive others and supply myself the present of affection. you could exchange this, and that i comprehend your perserverance and inner potential besides as your alluring sort coronary heart that's asking for romance. even although, this would in no way ever take place until eventually you could somewhat forgive, love and comprehend your self. a great place to start is at Cheryl Richardson's website, it has a communicate board so which you would be able to look for advice there. I strongly propose which you flow on your loved ones well being care expert and get an entire verify up with blood artwork, thyroid finding out, and each and each of the bells and whistles. the rationalization for this is because of the fact your outlook would nicely be a effect of a deeper problem, as an occasion, in case you have constipation the pollution that seep into your blood and tissue can use up you of magnesuim and reason melancholy and fatigue. nutrition D is yet another perpetrator, as we get much less sunshine in the iciness months. it must be via blood or in line with risk blood rigidity. it must be sleep, you need to be plagued by sleep apnea or an lack of ability to get a solid deep rem sleep. Regardless, that's considerable rule out any circumstances and get your supplements and mineral in stability with your gadget. I advise you are attempting anti-depressants. they're very uncomplicated at the instant and the taboo of the previous is long previous, so get some and you would be shocked how rapidly they are in a place to strengthen you out of the cycle. First be a chum to your self, be happy with the place you're at this 2d, evaluate reading the bible, i comprehend while i'm unable to attend to issues I merely supply it to God and placed my faith in Jesus.
2016-10-02 06:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time!
2007-12-21 16:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by LeighAnn D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you know I was sad???
I didn't do anything but choose the path I'm on now. That's got to be it.
2007-12-22 05:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trusting the wrong men
2007-12-21 17:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I put too much trust in the wrong women.
2007-12-21 16:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. no need to wonder because i know the exact reasons to why there are moments like that.
2007-12-21 16:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by ticklememay0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...i joined Yahoo!
Then i decided to try out this Yahoo Answers thing....
...next thing you know...
...i am answering stranger's questions, online...
2007-12-21 16:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by ɸ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dwell in the past when theirs a future-mate.
2007-12-21 16:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Garfield 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋